Chances are good that if you feel you might be a victim of verbal abuse, you probably are. Regardless of whether you're legitimately "messing up alot" or not, you can still be a victim of verbal abuse, which would definitely contribute to feelings of inadequacy in you and could result in you making the kinds of mistakes abusers like to accuse their victims of making; all the while denying that they themselves are contributing to the problem. No abuser will ever confess to abuse unless doing so gives him/her a psychological advantage over others. Keeping their victims disoriented and confused is the abuser's way of maintaining control of his/her universe, and all in it. I suggest you do an internet search on Dr. Sam Vankin. In my opinion, he has a lot of excellent insight on the subject of verbal/ambient abuse; it's causes and how to tell when it's happening. Drill this message into your heart above all else: It doesn't matter how much you "mess up", NO ONE DESERVES ABUSE!! Not even abusers. That's how they got that way in the first place. And DON"T KEEP IT A SECRET! Take Care!
If you have to ask... Then you are probably being abused verbally.
you have to move with a adult
Some do, some don't. The smart ones hopefully walk away from the relationship when they recognize they are being abused and that they don't deserve it.
The person being abused and any children who are there to witness it are victims.
Leave and let him find another victim.
In the United Stated Child Aid should be contacted. In Canada it is Child Welfare.
It depends on the state and the situation. If you are being abused, they will probably place you in foster care to keep you safe and properly taken care of.
Protecting individuals from abuse means you protect someone from being physically abused, verbally abused, emotionally abused or sexually abused. These forms of abuse are more vulnerable towards children. A social workers job is to stop children from being abused in any kind of way and protect them from coming into contact with that person that is abusing them.
speak to ure boss
Rules for emancipation vary from state to state or even county to county. Review the laws of your state.
yes, it is very reasonable. if a husband has been verbally abusing his wife, the wife should tell someone, perhaps see a counseler. you dont want it to go any further
Yes and no. Without addressing the allegation that she is being "abused" - she can travel out-of-state with her child. HOWEVER - she can not do so with the intent of deserting the father and depriving him of any contact with their child. He, after all, is a parent and has rights as well.