There are several obvious clues like never answering a cell phone and a change in normal patterns. Here's a common tip off to suggest there trouble in paradise....Ask yourself, "Are you fighting about stupid things more frequently?" This could be his/her way of trying to get YOU to call things off because he/she is too guilty and scared to confront you.
The best thing to do is to talk to them about it in person, dont accuse them if you have no proof yet, just ask and usually you can tell if they are lying. :)
Because he's a toe rag.
To her - no. To him - yes. It depends on who you believe. It appears that you believe him - as you say "she broke up with fiance before cheating"... if she broke up with him and met someone else then it wasn't "cheating".
To know if a guy is cheating on his long distance fiance one has to keep a watch over them. One has to read the signs of cheating if there are any. One has to read the speech etc to know that.
Definitely not. If your fiance is not sincere with his apology, there is absolutely no need to forgive him or her. You may leave him if you wish.
It is not a joke at all and it is considered cheating because hypothetically he's not sending it to his fiance so it is considered cheating. THAT IS ALSO CHEATING BECAUSE HE'S SENDING IT TO ANOTHER FEMALE INSTEAD OF HIS WOMEN.
If you are not the jealous type of person then go with your gut instincts. You can either ask your best friend to go with you and follow your fiance on the nights you feel they are cheating or, hire a detective for a weekend. It is far better to find out if your fiance is cheating as soon as possible before you ever consider getting married. If the wedding is close don't panic and try to find the evidence he is cheating (take a digital camera or your blackberry with you.)
Not necessarily you should maybe communicate with your fiance and tell him what you are feeling this is probably the best way. Every human being has little things they don't tell their mate and it's not on purpose but simply because it's not consequential. As long as you are honest with each other about serious things in your life then that's what counts. Stop worrying so much!
go on maury and prove it.
You don't call her at all. The trust and honesty issue at hand involves only you and your fiance. The other woman, if there is one, could be anyone and doesn't figure into this unless you're calling her only to verify the cheating, in which case the issues between you and your fiance are too deep to merit going forward with a marriage at this time. Don't create drama by warning her off or confronting her or getting details you fiance should be providing. Talk to him directly and find your answers there. First, you should confront him and ask if he is cheating on you. See how you take his answer & if you believe him. Tell him what is on your mind. If you are suspecting cheating now, PLEASE think twice about making it legal with this guy. Divorce is costly, and you want him to have half of everything you own? No thank you. If you call her it's just going to be ugly. If he denies it, just tell him you talked to her and she told you everything. He won't know you're telling a white lie.
Be true to your own heart and if you are truly not lying or cheating then realize she has the problem. Good communication skills are necessary to have a strong relationship so quietly sit down (without blaming your fiance) and ask why she thinks you are lying and cheating. She may have been cheated on once or more in her past; perhaps one or both of her parents cheated on each other so she is insecure and thus, she considers if you are not cheating or lying to her now you will be. If she continues to accuse you of lying and cheating after you have talked with her suggest she get psychological help and if she refuses which is a high possibility then you will have to decide if she is worth being with. You deserve much more than to have a relationship where your fiance and perhaps if you get married a spouse that is jealous and constantly accusing you of lying and cheating. You will know if your fiance will change or try to change and if not, then walk away because that means you have not met the right person in your life and they will be there in your future if you continue on in your life without your present fiance.
What is the point.