Both or at least you should attend counceling. You will need a 3rd party with professional training to help you strive.
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Do an internet search for Sam Vaknin's blurb on Inverted Narcissists Survival Guide. If it doesn't help you, it will likely at least make you giggle. It did me and I just broke free from narcissistic abuse.
Leave, then empty the bank.
Everyone can have a good marriage. It depends whether or not they get married twice, I guess.
A compensatory narcissist would not be able to have a successful second marriage. This is because they would always be craving praise while belittling their spouse to make themselves feel better.
Michael G. Lawler has written: 'Raid on the inarticulate' -- subject(s): Christianity, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Storytelling, Storytelling 'Marriage and the Catholic Church' -- subject(s): Catholic Church, Doctrines, Marriage, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Marriage 'Family' -- subject(s): Christianity, Family, Marriage, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Family, Religious aspects of Marriage, Families 'Marriage and sacrament' -- subject(s): Catholic Church, Doctrines, Marriage, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Marriage
Hire a hitman.
Dan McGee has written: 'Celebrating sex in your marriage' -- subject(s): Christianity, Marriage, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Marriage, Religious aspects of Sex, Sex, Sex in marriage
Frank Wilson has written: 'Majoring in your marriage' -- subject(s): Christianity, Marriage, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Marriage, Religious life, Spouses
Henry Bitakaramire has written: 'Traditional and Christian marriage' -- subject(s): Christianity, Marriage, Marriage customs and rites, Polygamy, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Marriage, Religious aspects of Polygamy
Gary Stewart has written: 'Winning the marriage marathon' -- subject(s): Christianity, Marriage, Married people, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Marriage, Religious life
Canon law was the body of rules and regulations governing religious practices such as marriage in Christian churches. It established guidelines for the sacrament of marriage, including requirements for validity and the process for annulment.
Opoku Onyinah has written: 'Taking the ultimate step in marriage' -- subject(s): Marriage, Religious aspects, Marriage customs and rites, Christianity, Religious aspects of Marriage
North Carolina Religious Coalition for Marriage Equality was created in 2004.