You are between a rock and a hard place regarding the loan if he will not give you the information about the loan. The loan will also show up on his credit report, but you may not have access to that, either.
You should ask him if he cosigned for a loan. He is your husband. If you don't feel comfortable asking him, then there may be other underlying issues that may need to be addressed first. I don't recommend snooping, try to keep an open line of communication.
The stepson should be the one responsible for the car loan. If your husband cosigned on the car loan, then you need to contact an attorney on this one.
The spouse cannot be held liable, however it is quite possible that the debt is no longer valid for collection. The person who cosigned the loan should find out what the SOL is in the state in which the contract was signed.
The one who BORROWED the money and/or the on who COSIGNED the loan.
Yes
Its half hers.
The loan must be paid off or the lender must agree in writing to remove your name from the obligation.
The Cosigned assumes full responsibility of the loan.
if the consigner files bankruptcy can the borrower take the car
You have very little recourse. As a co-signer, you are just as legally obligated to the debt whether you knew it existed or not. As a co-signer, it is incumbent on you to be aware of the status of the loan.
The loan has to be "secured" by someone with good credit. Call the lender for their loan qualifications.
Unfortunately if you cosigned a loan that means you were willing to pay the loan if the other signer defaults and if that happen they will go by any means to collect that money that you "cosigned/said" you would cover if the other person defaults. I would go after that person that you cosigned for if it has gone this far.
Well, if you are under 18, he can certainly take away your keys.