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How to know if your a lesbian or not?

Updated: 8/19/2023
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MadisonSweitzer

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9y ago

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You can tell if you are a lesbian if you do not enjoy the company of men, and if you have love tendencies towards other girls.

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11y ago

You know that you're a lesbian when you feel sexually attracted to another woman or just think about her sexually or look at her sexually. Enjoying those thoughts of course, otherwise you are just confused and straight.

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12y ago

either look at another girl and if your attracted to them then your a lesbian or your can kiss another girl and you find it... that you like it then ur a lesbian.

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Sorry, the answer is not as simple as looks and kisses.

Looks and kisses, especially in teenage years, can simple be a temporary infatuation or it could be bisexuality. It takes time to figure out your heart. The answer is to experiment, try out both ways. If you find being with a man romantically repulsive, but enjoy being with a woman, then yes you are probably a lesbian. If you find both enjoyable you may be bi. If however you find being with a woman less desirable than being with a man, you are probably straight. But even then that's over simplifying things. Take time to know yourself, and you heart will lead you to your truth.

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11y ago

Only you will know the answer to this question. You cannot change your sexual orientation; you are born with it. In light of this, you will have to take time to explore and identify your sexual identity.

If you are predominantly or exclusively attracted to women, then you are a lesbian. It may also be useful to think about your fantasies. For example, do you fantasize about the same sex more? If so, you are most likely lesbian.

Remember, there is no need to rush your decision. You should continue to explore your sexual identity and only come out if you are absolutely sure.

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11y ago

You may find yourself physically attracted to another women. It's something that's inside you, something that you feel.

If there's a pretty girl across the street that you have a small crush on, that's totally normal. Nearly all girls have a crush on another at some point in their lifetime. If, however, you feel that you don't have the same connection with guys that you have with girls this might be a little sign that you might prefer the same sex. You have to decide whether you're on one side of the fence or the other or even sitting in the middle. If you have very mixed feelings a few sessions with a therapist might help.

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10y ago

If you are a woman, and you are attracted to women only (or mainly), then you are indeed lesbian.

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