Although it may not seem fair that your ex boyfriend slept with your girlfriend, it's you that is wrong. Once you break up with you mate then they owe nothing to you so they can see and date whomever they want. However, I wouldn't be so mad at him as I would be at your friend. I have never dated one of my girlfriend's ex boyfriends because I thought it was rude and crude and I would never want to take the chance of hurting my girlfriend. If she had no problem, then it may be different.
There is no trust issue here. You and your ex were no longer going together so he can sleep with whom he wants. I will make a bet it was you that broke the relationship off and you are angry that he so quickly slept with someone else and it was like salt being poured into an open wound when he slept with your girlfriend. I think he was angry at you and wanted to get back at you.
I think it's time to sit and talk with your boyfriend and you take part of the blame as well. As you well know young men are at the height of their sexual prowess and some men will sleep with the "devil in a blue dress" if it meant satisfying themselves. If you love him, he loves you, then be mature and work it out! Be sure you let him know that cheating isn't an option if you decide to go together again.
Good luck Marcy
well that's a tuff one well it will be hard to gain he trust back because in the back of your mind you maybe think well should i trust him again? What if he does it again right well i know everyone thinks that at one point talk to him about it and talk to your best friend it will take some time to heal and to start trusting him again but talk to them
-Vanessa-
it may mean she likes him but my friend asks me, and she has a boyfriend (but then again, she used to like him...)
first, you should tell her that your not, and if she doesnt believe you, then you should wait, or get proof that you haven`t. if that doesnt work, then wait some time and try again. but dont wait too long.
because ha want's to be your boyfriend or he just want's to know
Your boyfriend's friend might have liked you enough to become friends.
you should give it a chance...if he comes onto you end it!
tell him she was a friend or a cousin and ask him to go out with you again .
Try and get him help, and if he doesnt take it... walk away
If you really are a friend, you don't and you don't sleep with the boyfriend again. Sleeping with him sure didn't make you one of her friends. That is considered a betrayal of friendship.
Pleasure him sexually.
It depends on what kind of relationship you had and how he would react and if you and him will ever talk again.
ask her what do you think you did? then tell her what makes you think she is wrong for.ANSWERpersonally, i think that you should hint to her that you like her. if she doesnt have a boyfriends then you should flirt with her. show her that she was wrong about you even if you don't know what you did to make her want to go your seprate ways. when my boyfriend broke up with me i still really liked him but i didnt show it, i flirted with my friend who is also his friend, he couldn't take it anymore and finally asked me out again. now he is my current boyfriend again. hope this helped (:
He would probably get in big trouble and never want to see you again but its a risk you will have to take