How do you ask a girl out without being embarrassed?

Answer 1

You never know if you will get rejected or not, so you have to take the risk. The best way might be to either write it down in a note or make a phone call.

No one likes rejection, but everyone faces rejection during their lives. It is how we deal with it that matters and it should be taken "with a grain of salt." The worst someone can say is no and so what? Just move on.

Answer 2

Additional Response !!!Remember that asking someone out on a date can feel uncomfortable. Many feel embarrassed, although unecessarily, and most feel the possibility of rejection. The answer will never be known unless the risk is taken. It is all a part of life, learning, and experience. Most of all, remember that if "rejected" or not seen for what you may offer, others may think differently so it is not the end of the world. The better or the best of the best may be just around the corner. It is natural and human nature to have such concerns; yet, be wise in those you ask.

Or you could get your good friend to ask him out for you? If the boy knows you fancy him and he doesn't have a problem with it then that has to be a good sign doesn't it? If he doesn't like the fact that you like him, you could always say you were having a joke and it was a dare or something :) I hope i helped x

Answer 3

be ur self nerd or not start off with a nice comment u like ( that's a nice hair sytle on u.) or give her a joke move like ( yo whats up with ur hair its messed up then u tell her no am just playing it looks good.) if u can make her laugh it is easy to make conversion and do what u gotta do

p.s

sharing ur feelings

helps

Answerbe ur self nerd or not start off with a nice comment u like ( that's a nice hair sytle on u.) or give her a joke move like ( yo whats up with ur hair its messed up then u tell her no am just playing it looks good.) if u can make her laugh it is easy to make conversion and do what u gotta do

p.s

sharing ur feelings

helps

Answer 4

Assuming that by 'emarced' you mean 'embarrassed', I'll go along and try to answer your question...

Okay, so you like a certain someone and you want to take it to the next level (and by next level i mean the one after picturing yourself with them in many a lip-locked fantasy...) but you're not exactly sure how to approach the situation without making a total fool of yourself and them.

Well, that's easy.

First, put yourself in their shoes (not literally coz they could put you up for harrassment and whatnot...) So, figurativelyspeaking and having put yourself in their imaginary shoes, imagine being asked out by someone that you either:

a) like

or

b) dislike.

Now consider this: if you do like them, you probably babbled and squealed like a little girl when they "popped the question" in question (hehehe) or (and this does happen), you don't like them and babble and squeal in terror like a total idiot coz you don't know how to let them down without totally crushing their self-esteem and being the direct result of why they never venture out into the human world again. Now that's a little dramatic but it is how it is.

Okay, so assuming that it's a "yes", you're probably going to want to be in a private place so you can girlishy squeal in the safety of your own presence. Nice.

But if it's a "no", well you're probably going to want to be in a private place anyway so no one's there to see you run off and leave them sobbing hysterically on the ground.

Let me sum it up: if you're going to ask someone out, make sure you:

• do it in private
• get them alone
• do it in the most casual and friendliest way possible (no threats, please, it doesn't work)
• actually know more about them then just their first name and the names of your children
• practice what you're going to say

And if they let you down, take it in your stride, be cool and move off. No begging on the knees, no attaching yourself to any part of their body and definitely no empty promises.

And remember: if it's meant to be, it'll be.

Answer 5

There is no asking involved.

Just ask him/her on a date don't be scared!!!!! If he/she rejects you just deal with it! it's no big deal :L

Try and get to know them better so your pretty good mates, so then if and when you do, they'll be more likely to respect you and not tell anyone and try to save you any embarrassment.

Answer 6

Rejection is always a possibility, no matter what you say or do. Don't make a big deal of it.

And for what it is worth, some guys will reject any girl that asks them out as they feel it is an attack on their "manhood" and that only guys have a right to ask girls out (not the other way around).

Answer 7

The key is to remember that you have plenty of friends and that if she doesnt like you then its her loss.