How do you become lesbian without your parents knowing?

Answer 1

Lesbian is an identity. You can identify as whatever you want without anyone ever finding out; it's a mental thing. Having a gay relationship without your parents finding out is more complicated, but it's fairly easy to make up excuses for where you're going and who she is, and it's easy to talk at length over the internet. It's better to be honest if you can, but if your parents are bigots there is little you can do.

Answer 2

ok first of all you don't "become lesbian"

you can DISCOVER your sexuality and if you thought you were straight before you are probably bi or possibly pansexual or a whole lotta other stuff

ANYWAYS if you mean to have lesbian sex without your parents knowing then you can do a couple of things

you could wait until you know you or the girl you want to be with's parents will be gone for a few hours

if you have a VERY close and trusting friend that would be willing to let you use their house for a while (you would owe them big time though)

you could use a public bathroom (eew)

if u really want you could rent a hotel

in your or the other girls car if you just drive somewhere privet

and there are probably tons more

but please PLEASE use protection you could go to a sex store and ask for a dental dam and if you want to do the whole sizers thing or whatever you can find what you need on your own BUT I AM A GAY MAN AND I LOOKED UP STUFF TO PUT ON A VAGINA FOR YOU!!!!!! that just shows how much i care and how important this is :)

also for not telling your parents i am not trying to push you to do anything you feel uncomfortable with but i felt SO much better when i told my parents I'm gay

but as i said I'm not pushing you i don't know your background i don't know your family just think to yourself how would II feel if i told them this is for you not for them