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Remember the abuser always wants to maintain control. The only safe way for you to demand he/she get help is to move out and have absolutley no contact with him. They have to be very uncomfortable at the thought they may have lost you for good in order to motivate any desire in seeking help. You must not contact him and he will know you are serious. If you stay he/she will only resort to different methods of control.

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