I am assuming that the car payments are not being made and your credit is being hurt. Short of playing repo man/woman yourself--you need consult an attorney before you do anything.
Yes.
Hire a lawyer and if the lawyer can't get it back for you, take them to claims court. You'll win for sure.
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NO, and shouldn't want to be unless you don't have faith in the one you cosigned for.
only if you owe them money
It depends on your debt to income ratio and the total amount finance of the other vehicle. If you can afford two cars, it should not be a problem.
CALL THE LENDER. They can advise you and work with you.
Yes, You are still considered a signer of the note. You will have to pay repo costs and any other charges that may have occurred, but you have every right to get vehicle back. talk to your bank where the loan was processed and they should help.
You are better off to give the money to someone rather than cosign. Cosigning means that you are responsible for that debt if the person you cosigned for doesn't pay up. The court would have your son-in-law sell the vehicle and pay the bank back and whatever is left over is your responsibility. Go to the bank you and your son-in-law went too and they will straighten things out for you.
Pay the loan off and then collect payments from the person you cosigned for.
you and the party you cosigned have to talk to who you have the note with and they should be able to help you out
You can have another person cosign for that person. As long as your the primary you wont need her to get her off the lease.