How do you get even with the girl whose been sleeping with your husband?

Answer 1

First, did this woman know that your husband was married? Sometimes a man lies to a woman and says that he is single. If this is the case, there is no reason to get back at her, because she's innocent and he is the only guilty one.

It's very difficult when a husband commits adultery, and it's perfectly understandable that you want to get back at this woman. However, getting back at people isn't that great of an idea even when they do deserve it. What you need to do is figure out what to do about your husband. If you haven't, you need to sort out how you feel about him. Do you want to divorce him if you haven't already? Because obviously he is guilty of cheating on you. I think that instead of focusing so much on the woman who had sex with your husband, you need to focus more on your husband.

I am sorry that you have to go through something like this. I hate to see how adultery destroys marriages and families. Try to find someone in your life to talk to about all of this.

AnswerThe best way is unbeknownst to your husband, secretly befriend her and then get all the goods on your husband and take him to the divorce court. Answer

Your husband is the only person in this situation who owed any duty to you. His lover was not responsible for protecting your marriage. You shouldn't be spending your time and energy trying to "get even". You should be spending time and energy trying to "get over it" if you have decided to continue with the marriage. If you can't then it's time to think about ending your marriage. Your frame of mind can't be good for your children nor can it possibly foster a positive atmosphere in your home. Trying to get even will probably get you in trouble since many people resort to vengeance that may land them in court paying monetary damages. Stay in the marriage and get over it or move on.

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As THAT woman, I would say there are two sides to every story. Yes she has had a relationship with your husband but it takes two to make a relationship of any kind. She gave and he accepted and visa-versa. If it was just sex then you can rest, safe in the knowledge that he is incapable of controlling himself. If it was more than that and they honestly just fell in love, you need to heal and no one is to blame.

Revenge is a very short-lived victory. There will be immediate gratification that you hurt the woman who came into your marriage but ultimately, it will solve nothing. Move on and know the pain won't last forever.

Answer 2

Let her have him. I'm serious.

ANSWER:

Do you really want to get even with your husband mistress, if you do, the best thing you can do is get all the information of who this woman is and when you have it in your hand, gave it to your husband. But I think it's not his mistress that needs to be taught a lesson, it's your husband who did the affair. It was him who betrayed you and hurt you. The only wrong with his mistress is she didn't say no thank you, you are married.