How do you get over a guy who has lied and cheated all the time and has now got someone new but still just wants you for sex?


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2005-12-06 18:43:09
2005-12-06 18:43:09

Come on there girlie ... get that pride going and kick this jerk to the curb! The way he is treating you is not love at all and I'd be madder than a pit bull in a bag if a guy did that to me. Really think of this ... how dare he want to come back to you for the sex!!!! He's not only using you like a $20 hooker, but he's also cheating on his new girlfriend. Boy, this guy sure has it good! You are stronger than you think, so tell this guy to take a hike and get out there with your girlfriends and do some fun things and before you know it you'll find some nice guy that you deserve. Always rely on yourself 100% because you should always be your own best friend through life. Is it hard to get over a guy like this? If so, then explore WHY. Try to figure out the root cause of your behavior. You can only change yourself, not others. Most people would be able to walk away from a cheater and user without giving it a second thought.


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No. It is not possible to truly love someone if you've cheated on them. If you've cheated on them, then there's obviously something about them that you don't like and you are seeking someone else who has the quality that your person doesn't have. If you truly loved someone, you wouldn't have cheated on them in the first place. It's probably best if you told them the truth, and just moved on with your life. If they forgive you, then great. But if not, just move on. There's no point in trying to mend something that had issues to begin with.

no! if they cheated on you, there not loyal enough to trust! theyll just do it again probly no! if they cheated on you, there not loyal enough to trust! theyll just do it again probly

well there is nothing wrong with two partners just dont see them both on the same night

Well. first of all if he cheated on you; he is what I like to call a man whore and only wants sex. Second of all, that is total manipulation. Sorry if it sounds harsh but just forget him.

You can't really convince someone to like you. Just be yourself, and if he still doesn't like you, then maybe its just not right.

well,if you were best friends before all of it,he still likes you.maybe he just thought it was better when you were both just friends,or maybe he just wants to check up on you.

Just move on and realize that there is someone else out there for you. Also know that you can get past them because if they were real with you they wouldn't have cheated in the first place. And if they wouldn't have cheated they wouldn't have had anything to lie about it.

well you should really say sorry and just straighten everything out. Say what you feel about her/him and say why you cheated on her/him. I mean they have the right to know.

Well, if he wants a break but still wants to hang out, then maybe he wants to be friends. I know usually when someone says "lets just be friends" they don't mean it and you will never talk again, but maybe being in a relationship right now is to much for him. Just stay good friends and eventually he will come back to you. Good luck!

If someone wants to make-out with it is just kissing over and over and it means he likes you as in like likes you.

well that depends on how well he knows you as a person or does he just want you for your beauty? if he likes you for your personality do it! if he just wants u for your body tell him to find someone else... i think if he wants to go out w/ u for a 4th time he must still like you and miss your company...

I think you should have just told him i love you and all but its over i cant believe that its bull Grade yourself. Is this what you are striving to find, someone who can't control his alcohol, and sleeps around? It was his mistake, not yours, sorry!

Speak to your friend about it.. If she still wants to be best friends with that person, you might have to just accept it. Hopefully your friend will understand from your point of view.

well he/she just wants someone to play with

He probably still wants to talk to you, because maybe he is still a little bit interested in you, or he just wants to be friends...

Hun if your husband cheated on you then i would leave him. But for your friend tell him that you are there for him always. And even if he has a gf doesnt mean he doesnt want u. Just visit him all the time, and show how much u respect him and care for him ok..

Dummie U just have a Dog on your hands. Speaking as a man U need to move on. He dont want them or U for a long term main woman. He just hittin whatever let him.

Wikianswerers opinion: No, that is why he left her. Jon says that he still loves Kate, but he doesn't That is why he cheated on her. He didn't love her anymore he says that they need space. NOPE Jon just cheated on Kate

All you have to do is move on! Just like her. Find SOMEONE else, and just be friends with you girl you still like. You have to expect that there will be breakups in your first relationships because you are just getting started.

Even though he has a girlfriend doesnt mean he still doesnt want to be around you he just wants to hang out you know chill lol He might still feel comfortable talking to you. Maybe he just wants to be friends with you cause while you guys were going out you were really easy to talk to or maybe he just doesnt want to let you go. It all depends on how he acts. If he is acting all flirty still then he still wants to be with you. But if hes just acting all nice and he just wants to chat then he just wants a friend that he can easily chat to! If he is dating someone else I'm sure she would not appreciate knowing her boyfriend is still conversing in anyway with his ex as I'm sure you wouldn't like. It is best to keep your distance and don't accept contact from him while he is involved. Maybe he just whats to be friends with you. That is possible you know!

Some of them are actually sorry and do want you back. If they cheated on you consider it A LOT. My boyfriend cheated on me and he is just ignoring me now. When he cheated on me .?????? But still... Consider it very carefully!! Lovee Youu x

Just ask them, the worst they can say is no.

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