You don't. Don't spank your 11 year old child! Try something a bit less painful, like positive reinforcement or taking something away. It would help if you gave more information as well, like exactly what he did. Spanking can just make your child upset and mad at you, not helping in the long run. Try more peaceful alternatives! =^w^=
You don't. He's almost a teen. And are you sure he's just lazy? Talk to him. There can be many reasons why he is not doing his homework and don't like school. Sit with him and help him with the homework and you'll see if he understand it or not. Spanking will never let you know if something is wrong. He will not confide in you after you've done that.
12 is too old for spanking. A much better punishment would be depriving him of privileges like using his cellphone or watching TV or staying out with his friends or all of the above.
A mom might say," IF YOU DO NOT STOP THAT, I WILL GIVE YOU A SPANKING!!
defenitly don't spank them over everything i would give them one worning say "if you dont stop your gonna get a spanking" if they still act up give them a good old fashioned spanking! give her a HARD, HURTFUL, good oldfasioned spanking if she wont listen If a girl or bpy for that matter is being deliberately defiant, or naughty, I have no qualms about giving them a good old fashioned spanking over my lap. A proper spanking should be applied solely to the buttocks, either covered (shorts or panties) or on the bare. I prefer bare, especially if the child is a bit older. This adds an element of embarassment that will be remembered long past the pain of a spanking and MOST will not want a repeat and will act accordingly.
Spanking your child is your choice, however, there are ALWAYS more appropriate and positive alternatives to spanking. Such as: time outs, taking away privileges.ect
"James had a bad reputation with his teachers for misbehaving in class."
No.
Only if you change your ways.
he gives the bad kids a spanking
I am a firm believer of spanking, look at kids nowadays. Our children now are the result of not being punished correctly for their actions. They say spanking is "abusing". So for you to spank your child, be prepared for welfare to come in and investigate if your child goes to school and tells on you. A nude spank? No.
he gives the bad kids a spanking
First, you start with a time out. Then, after the time out, you say "If you do this again, you are going to get a spanking." If he or she does whatever he or she was doing, then you go into the bathroom and then spank him or her however many times you feel.
This refers to a position. When you change a babies' diaper, you hold the legs up. Similarly, when you give a diaper spanking, the spankee holds his/her legs up while lying on his/her back.
Of course it's right on the day of your birthday!