How do you handle the fact that your girlfriend can't get over her ex she says you are her future but he keep showing in the picture all the times bad thing its that you work on the same place?

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if for some reason you suspect that the girl your seeing is not over her ex, then you are consider a rebound. You should talk to this girl about how she still feels about this guy, if she still has feelings for this guy then leave her and give her a chance to get over it. Because if you stick around knowing that she still has feelings for this guy, she will hurt you and possibly cheat on you. Do you think that maybe she going out with you to make her ex jealous? you should think about that.

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Thank you. Its get more complicated to the fact we are engaged and i don't believe i am a rebound. We are engaged to be married next year. She been honest about how she feel about me and him. I don't think she want to go back to this person and she even said the fact its if we no longer together hes more likely will not even be in her life. She have been as honest a person could be with some one, and express her self to me on this subject and i respect more than anything. I feel that the main problem its the fact she its frustrated because for 5 years she try her best for this other person and he walk over her, and used her in every aspect. Now that she has move on and building a new life, he has come back to hunt her saying how terrible a person he was and that he has change. I think its more anger what she have towards him, than anything but still its a very hard situation sometimes.