Investigate his part...ask him, and even and past girlfriends.
AnswerIf you try to discuss committment and he gets all fidgety and nervous or upset. He can make a decision in a moments notice, every decision he makes, he's even uncertain about. If you have been going with him for longer than 3 years and he hasn't made any attempts to sit and speak with you about what is in your relationships future. If he always says, I like things the way they are, why change what we have and complicate it. All of the above and then some. If you havent gotten him to commit in this time, your battle with be long. I say why waste any more time, move on with you life and find someone that doesnt have the fear of two becoming one awesome duo. If you wait, you will waste your time and if you give him an ultimatum then your future relationship is not starting off on the right foot.uhm... commitment-phobe?
phobe
phobe means fear of something
he may just be scared and not ready for the commitment
I made a commitment to quit smoking. My boyfriend made a commitment to me today by proposing.
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She probably had a boyfriend in mind and did not know how to break up with you without hurting your feelings.
The cast of Commitment - 2007 includes: Boris Hiestand as Boyfriend
she was know as Annie oakley or little shotter or phobe ann moses
Send him a postcard and run. No im kidding, Just let him know you have a commitment to your boyfriend and that he is a great guy but hey you've gotta be with your boyfriend. If he cared for you he would understand.
Phobe
Fear