It some cases the mistress is just being used and there doesn't tend to be feelings involved however, if you are trying to give him another chance and are forgiving him for doing such a thing then you should trust him and what he says about how he feels for her now and don't bring it up anymore - if your forgiving him to save your marriage leave the past in the past and move forward.
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When it comes to our husbands and their mistakes, we were given a test whether we are strong enough to handle problems that we never ask for. Because of these our world change, we need to be the stronger one, we as wives needs to be the understanding one, and when it comes to love, we supposed to forgive because of our emotion.
For you to see or even feel if your husband had feelings for his mistress, your the only person that knows your husband before he had his affair. You can use your senses that was given to you. Never doubt your instinct, its like our guardian angel. As a woman and a wife I do know how you felt, been there, done it, and even I lost at least its not me who made the mistakes. If your husband didn't love the other woman he will not be with her for months.
tell her that her boyfriend cheated on her. she needs to know.
girls are not cheated boys ... they are cheated themselves... they are move away from boys but they dont know how much the boys loved them... so they are cheated themselves...
try counseling and if it doesnt work out then you may have to get a divorce
I don't know though I hope she did with a girl. -- AT
To find this out you hang out with the girl to see if you still have feelings for her. That will give you your true feelings about her.
Ask him out because a lot of boy friends I`ve had love to cheat on girl we cheated on them.
yes they can.
Tina Campbell is friends with ONE of the women whom her husband Teddy cheated on her with but she is really clueless about who the other women are since he has admitted to having multiple affairs.
if you know for sure he has cheated on you than you talk to him. if he dosent care then i'd say hes not a good man and you might could find someone better.
usually if a guy kisses a girl that means that they have feelings for that girl
he will act werd
they will usually let you know if they like you back