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How do you stop the cycle of abuse because when he is in his rages you HATE him but when he isn't you love him?
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∙ 14y ago
There is a couple of things to consider..
1. what do you consider rages 2. what triggers the rages 3. is he violent when he rages 4. are the rages more often when there is a substance involved (drugs)
these are not questions that you ask him.. these are questions that you ask yourself. now LOVE is a word often thrown around to express affection for another in a way that is really indescribable. which is understandable, considering that if you "love" someone and they abuse you and you don't know why they abuse you or you don't know why you stay... you cant describe it because you don't know...
in order to understand love you must understand you... why would you stay.. pretty teeth?... you think he loves you?.. like his body?... he doesn't really mean it, he's just mad?... real men don't hit women.. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!... I love my wife very much and I would never hit her... "do I want to express my anger?" yeah however there are ways to express your anger and it is more of a passive aggressive approach but it works... it works because it is mental.. an ass whoop in you will forget in a year a mad feeling you will never forget ever !!!!!!!!
IF HE HIT YOU LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!
AnswerLeave him. The cycle will pass to your children (if you have any) if you don't. Also, you have to think about his rages. It could end up killing you....do you think it will matter if you love him or not? A person doesn't stop becoming an abuser without help. If he wont accept help, then leave him. Be strong.Wiki User
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