Very difficult question, but I will try and answer it. There is only one person in this world that you have, you are born alone and you will die alone, only you can go through these experiences by yourself. So the most important person that you need to think about right now is yourself. Talk to your spouse with respect and love and the minute you see an argument brewing, walk away. Breathe and tackle the conversation later. Before every argument always ask yourself 2 questions: Am I tired? Am I hungry. More fights are caused by these 2 facts than any other.
yes .
Talk to them about it.
Your question is a bit complex but if you want to know what you need to do because you found out a spouse is having an affair and you know the other spouse, you need to talk to the person who is cheating to stop because of your friend. If this spouse don't listen to your plea, then tell him or her that you will talk to his or her spouse. That is all you can do. The rest will be them to work things out.
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The laws vary from state to state, but in general, no, it is your spouse that inherits.
No, the spouse is not responsible. However it does come out there assets left behind.
You need to sit and talk about your spouse about avoiding boredom.
No. Talk to your lawyer.
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No, you get to choose.
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The spouse will be entitled to a portion, perhaps all, of an estate if there is no will.