How do you tell your parents you are Wiccan?

Answer 1

Explaining That You Are Pagan To Your Parents Views:

• Due to the nature and reputation of paganism, it may be impossible to do this and still remain in the same relationship. Unless you have very liberal parents, I wouldn't even go there, as your parents may think you are being rebellious at the very least. Reactions to practicing paganism can range from mild disapproval from more liberal parents to extreme anger from other parents, so you should consider carefully how you approach them.

• Just for the record, there is a very good book out there that looks at just that subject in a very user-friendly and straight-forward manner. "When Someone You Love Is Wiccan" by McColman. You may be able to find this at your local library. It does have a Wiccan lean, but is an excellent overview for Paganism as well. It is a good idea to speak to your parents on this matter, if you feel they would be open to it, but only when you are sure this is the path you intend to follow. It would be difficult for all of you if six months down the road you changed your mind and decided to explore Buddhism or Judaism.

Answer 2

The best way to hide Wicca from your parents is to not have any items related to the religion out in your room. However, it may be best to speak to the parents and let them know so that you can openly practice the religion.

Answer 3

Becoming Pagan/Wiccan is like becoming any faith, I am sure you did not undertake this without careful consideration.

If you are a minor, your parents may try to have a say in your choice of spiritual path. They may try to change your mind or "forbid" you to practice your spiritual path. If they do it is most likely out of genuine concern for you and a general lack of knowledge about your choice.

If you are an adult, they have little or no input into your decisions, but it will make things easier in future, if they understand your choice.

In either case, I recommend complete openness and respect. Do your homework, tell them what it is about Paganism/Wicca that draws you to it. Let them read some of the books available.

I recommend "When Someone You Love Is Wiccan" by Carl McColman.

Also, it wouldn't hurt to let them know that you are still the kind, loving, caring, ethical person they raised you to be.

Answer 4

I have heard nothing bad regarding the nature or reputation of modern paganism, and commend you on making a decision to follow you own feelings on this matter. It is not that I believe that modern paganism is the right religion above all others, just that it obviously meets your spiritual needs better than some more well-known faiths. I see no reason to ridicule your beliefs. As to culpability by association, you can be assured that the ancient pagan religions were worthy, evidenced by the fact that some of their adherents were people of the highest moral principles.
Certainly, it is hard to give useful advice without knowing how liberal your parents are or whether you still live at home. At most, we can say, choose a time and place where you are all comfortable and can discuss this without undue distractions. Perhaps sound your parents out first by talking about their religion and point out that you respect their beliefs but may not follow the same path.