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How can you make your spouse be emotionally connected with you after his affair?
Mgodat
Winning back your wife after your emotional affair will be hard.
You broke the bond that the two of you had for a long time. I'm not sure the situation of your relationship with your wife before you have the affair.
Do you know what women feels when we discovered that our husband had emotional affair with another woman? It make us fools because man and his wife supposed to be one. Your wife will ask herself why you had to find another woman just to talk to her and maybe more. She will feel that she's not good enough to be your best friend. She will have a hard time to trust you if you can't even talk to her about whats in your mind.
I guess emotional affair is very popular between couples in United State. Now my question to you is why can't you talk to your wife about anything, not just about bills, children and mortgage. Have you talk to your wife about intimacy, the one that both of you shared for a long time. Do you know how your wife feels right now, naked because you probably talk to this other woman about your life with your her. Or maybe the two of you already shared the intimacy supposed to belongs with your wife. Get ready for the upcoming weather from your wife, because it will not be easy for her to forget.
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∙ 13y ago
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∙ 13y agoyou can't, the simple fact is if he really loved you he wouldn't have betrayed you like that. I can't stand it when guys say "I love you" even after they've been caught; obviously not because if he did he wouldn't have cheated.
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I had a cyber affair. Now its over my husband stopped calling me. Why?
Having an affair can be emotionally devastating for one's spouse. So, it is not surprising that a person's spouse would ignore them after they learned of an affair. To make a marriage work following infidelity, both parties need to be willing to work it out, and they should likely attend couple's therapy.
How do you know if your marriage will survive after your spouse affair?
You don't. You have to make an educated guess based on your knowledge of your spouse's personality.
Do you have emotional confusion resulting from your spouse affair?
Yes, when a spouse has been cheated on they are emotionally confused; deeply hurt; lose of trust and anger. To have another affair with someone else breaks the bond of trust that was in the marriage vows and most married couples try to make an effort to be honest with each other, but, unfortunately this idea of honesty seems to be fading quickly by the high statistics of cheating spouses, but a small percentage do make it through a long marriage without either having an affair.
What to do when your extra marital affair end?
If you can, try to make up with your spouse. If that doesn't work, divorce is probably the best thing for you.
You were caught having an affair would your spouse have an affair to?
You should be more worried about how your hurt your spouse and not whether they would have an affair on you. Cheating is cheap and disrespectful. If one is unhappy with their spouse they should have the guts to communicate the fact and either seek marriage counseling or separate for awhile so both parties can clear their head. If they come to the conclusion they do not make each other happy then get a divorce and become free to date. It's possible your spouse now feels free to have an affair of their own simply because you have broken their heart, but most would just walk away from their cheating spouse and move on in their life. They deserve better!ANSWER:From my own personal experience what I did was use towards me so when the man I married had the affair, he told me from his own words, " what about what you did first?" So I guess i will say yes
How sorry is your cheating spouse after the affair?
* As to how sorry the cheating spouse is depends on the individual who cheated. Some men make a mistake once and feel guilty and heartbroken when they realize how they have hurt their spouse or children; other men feel no remorse for cheating and are just sorry they got caught.
Should a person begin to think their spouse is having an affair if they make a person feel invisible and constantly give hateful answers and degrading looks at their spouse?
Not necessarily. An affair doesn't always cause the spouse to be mean like that. A marraige that is falling apart would cause that. When a spouse is cheating, the last thing they want to do is be mean and suspicious. They want to act normal and even nice so the other doesn't suspect anything. For your marraige: time for counceling. If you want to save this marraige, make an appointment and go (if your spouse wont go, then go alone to see what you can do to save the marraige).
Is making an apology from your spouse affair enough to believe him?
When your husband has an affair and apologizes this is not good enough to fully trust him because he decided on his own to break that bond of trust you both once had for each other by having the affair. Make him earn your trust back and if he really loves you and is not a man that has had more than one affair then seek marriage counseling to help give you the tools to make your marriage stronger.
How can you make your spouse understand how much his affair has hurt and negatively affected you?
You probably won't. The hurt, pain and anger that you are feeling is hard for your spouse to grasp. It would be best for both of you to get counseling to work so that you both can work through the issues.
Should you expose a narcissist to their spouse if they are having an affair with your spouse?
Just because this person is a narcissist doesn't make then much different than anyone else cheating with your spouse and you should be more concerned about your spouse cheating. By all means sit down with the narcissists spouse and tell the whole story, but be sure you have absolute proof before doing so. Don't be surprised if the narcissist's spouse becomes angry and is denial, but, in time the spouse will become to believe it.
How do you spot a cheater?
People that do cheat on their spouse or partner will be hard to see, they are very carefull to where they at and who their with. If and when they see their affair partner it will be inside the affair's partner home, or in the hotel. And most of the time the cheater will make sure that the house of that person is a bit far from where he or she lives.
Will your marriage ever be the same after your spouse affair?
People are only human and make mistakes so if this is the first time your spouse has cheated on you and they are willing to go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with problems in the marriage then yes, there are marriages that survive an affair and end up being stronger for it.
