How does a guy know whether or not he is ugly if he does not like how he looks in the mirror but other people say he is good looking?
It's simple: just pick up an age-appropriate popular
"COLOR: black; BACKGROUND-COLOR: #a0ffff">magazine or clothing
catalog. For example, if you are a 34 year-old man, try GQ,
Esquire, or the the Macy's Fall Sale Catalog. Look at the
advertisements. Or, watch TV. If you look like any of the men
there, you are attractive. If you don't , you're not. That's it!
Like it or not, fair or not, that's the world. Advertisers have
spent a lot of money, time, and effort to figure all this out.
Don't try to redo their research. If you are overweight, it's even
easier :-) Sorry, them's the facts! This doesn't mean you won't
find a woman who likes you; it just means it will be harder for you
than for other guys. When a woman thinks a guy is hot, about half
will admit it. The other half will say: "He's so sensitive - really
understands me, ..." Don't believe it, she just likes his 6-pack!
Women don't fall in love with cash or personality. Like us guys,
it's 90% looks. They'll make up the rest to sound politically