The Everything Jewish Wedding Book lists 4 different options:
1. Traditional: Follows all Orthodox Jewish traditions
2. Contemporary: Combines traditional and modern Jewish elements
3. Informal: Can be held in other places besides the synagogue, with dressy daytime attire and a smaller guest list
4. Formal: Can be held in other places besides the synagogue, with formal evening attire and a large guest list.
For non-Orthodox Jews, there are an unlimited number of options, but if they want the ceremony performed by a Rabbi, they may have to follow some guidelines.
It is to the Jewish people.
Jewish weddings are normally not performed on the Sabbath. (Many are performed on Saturday night or Sunday, explicitly because many forms of work cannot be done on Shabbat.)
She normally does a bouquet toss just like at non-Jewish weddings.
Jewish wedding music
Absolutely!
Yes and no. Orthodox Jewish weddings demand modesty at all times, while Conservative and Reform Jewish weddings you can go strapless!
Challah is not served at Jewish weddings.
Yes, Jewish people do, in fact, get married.
It can be at the end of the ceremony.
At Orthodox Jewish weddings, the groom is escorted by both fathers and the bride is escorted by both mothers. At modern Jewish weddings, the bride and groom are escorted by their parents.
Yes, in Jewish tradition, weddings are a major celebration and it is the job of the guests to keep the bride and groom entertained. A part of making the wedding a celebration is dancing. In Orthodox Jewish weddings, the men and women dance separately, often with a barrier between the two groups.
All weddings are special in their own ways. Jewish weddings may have unfamiliar customs to some people, but the wedding is beautiful and congratulates the bride and groom.