You are going to have to speak with her concerning how this behaviour makes you feel if you want to continue being friends and due to her demeanor she may not be very happy with this conversation which you may need to leave right away. This is not a healthy relationship and if she is not willing to change her behaviour towards you it is in your best interest to avoid this relationship for some time as to show her you are serious and maybe show her that her behaviour does affect others. Also, keeping your distance for a time may help you realize that you may not need this negativity in your life anyway and move forward without such a person in your life.
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A REAL friend is NOT controlling and abusive and I agree that you need to talk to her about the situation.
She probably does see it, but is either in denial or has herself convinced that he will change. If I were her friend, I would buy her a good book on the subject of abusive and controlling relationships and hope that she reads it and gets a clue from it.
Immediately. Reach out to a close friend or relative for help, and leave as soon as you can.
dejah is not a mean and abusive friend
Caesar considers Antony a loyal friend despite the fact that Antony likes to stay out all night partying.
AnswerJust quit. Don't reply to the texts that you receive and don't start any on your own. If your abusive friend can't figure out why your are no longer texting just give him or her time to think and hopefully they are smart enough to figure it out. No one needs an abusive friend and real friends will never be abusive to you.
Why would you want a backstabber or a controller as a friend?
Answer I had a friend once that was like that. It turned out that her husband was very controlling and didn't want her to have any friends. His excuse to her was he didn't like that particular friend. He would tell her that he feels that friend was (fill in the blank) and that's why he didn't like her. What it really was is that he was very controlling and manipulative and simply didn't want her to have any friends. In addition, he was abusive to her, told her it was her fault that he was behaving that way, and didn't want her to possibly tell a friend what was really going on. Or, it could be he really doesn't like you for some reason and your friend would not want to tell you that.
If you have a friend who is controlling who you date, you need to get rid of your friend.
If a friend were in your situation, what would you advise?
If its a male friend, it most likely means you are in the friend zone, and he considers you one of the guys (not girlfriend material).
seek help for your friend before it is to late. and you will regret it abuse can turn into murder be a friend seek help
Tell someone close to you that you can trust, a friend or relative. Either you or them should tell the police. Get out of the relationship as soon as possible. Even if you "love" them, you should still leave, love is something that has to be a two way thing, and if they are abusive towards you, they don't love you. You can find someone that you deserve, who will treat you with respect and kindness and will be a lot happier!