How would a married guy act towards his mistress.Think he he loved the mistress more than his wife then she wouldn't be the mistress.Right?
I think that if a man loved his mistress more than his wife it would be difficult for the man to know. Would the mistress think that she would eventually be replaced by another mistress? This is the very tricky part of the whole question. I think that it is possible for the man to love the mistress more, but also difficult for him to know. If he took a break from his wife he may have the chance.
He would say i love my mistress.
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It will be obvious and you will know if your husband has feelings for his mistress. He will act uneasy when his around the house, always looking at the tel. or his own cell phone. He will always make excuses that he have things to do away from you so he can call his mistress. Without you knowing it, he will buy a flower every time he sees her to spent time. If it's not cash it will be his own credit card that he will use to buy her gifts or taking her out to eat. But you will notice the mood and his reaction specially when his around you. The man that I married was different around me, I was fooled and felt so stupid. But now I don't have anymore baggage nor drama because I let him go when he told me the truth about the woman he met on a datind site.
It should not bother him at all because she is just wondering. If she asks him out then he should tell her no! Easy as that!
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Would he?..afraid not because there are some married men who do stays with his mistress because he loves her. Most affairs its the married lovers that do fell in love with the other woman because everything she do, is new to him, so if you ask him how he feels, he might tell you. But if the two of you has understanding and only sex, it might scares him because he will feel that your getting serious and asking a lot more.
Good examples is the man that I married, he told his mistress at first that all he want was to have close friend, so she felt comfortable when they talk. But what she didn't know, this man that I married was wanting more than friendship. So its not the married lover that will be scared but the mistress.
Well there are some things to look out for like:
He might be out more
When out (if he is) he will spend a long time out
Might not pay as much attention to you
Wont really do anything with you anymore
Might seem inattentive and spacey
Some married men though play it farley cool and don't show any signs of change in behaviour or actions. In this case you wont know it happened until it happens :|
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It will be obvious, because us wives will not have no idea if our husband is seeing someone else, bad enough that we can't tell if he is falling in love with another woman. But this always happen when it comes to couples relationship. and all we can do is face the truth.
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One thing that I never did gave you is what I experience when the man I married was having an affair and fell in love with this married woman. It's all new to me because he never did it with me even when we were dating and after we got married. What I had notices was;
He takes a shower twice a day
He wasn't concerned about getting the right amount of sleep at night
He always knows how to dress well just to go to work each day
His always in a hurry having dinner with us when his home at night
He loves to talk especially on the phone, with me he told me that his
a quite man, rather listen than talking.
I also had found out that he have this emotional feelings I never knew and we've been married for 20 odd years.
if you know that then why dont you get someone else that really likes you that would never cheat on you
No. That would be adultery.
Get out or stop.
If I cared about my marriage I would avoid that couple completely.
If she is already married to someone else I would say it is time for you to move on.
when they have an affair with someone else
yes she might still love you if she was falling for someone else exspecially if you were her first love....most loves are hard to forget about even if your falling for someone else.
I would avoid this person.
by falling in love with someone else
Technically, yes. But if she/he's married to someone else, and you are there soul mate, then they have obviously with the wrong person, and only time, will reveal that to them.
yes
It's illegal to be married to more than one person at a time. It is called polygamy. Someone said: Can you say B-I-G-A-M-Y? People go to jail for it.