He married in another state and didn't know he was still legally married to someone else
It depends, is it a trust issue, or did you marry him for the money?
Do you have any evidence that he is? If so, present him with that evidence to show that you are aware of his usage. If he continues to deny it, you should talk to him about the importance of honesty in the marriage and what you are wanting out of the marriage.
It is possible but a normal person with sense would leave them.
It is possible to file for a divorce on the grounds of desertion. The waiting period varies from country to country.
how else would he get sex from you!
You get ripped off when you trade with another country, or with a major company in your own country.
Early marriage might be a problem for some in the way their relationships go. Being too young or not knowing one another well enough can cause a lot of hardship in a marriage.
If your husband marry you using somebody else's name... then you probably didnt marry the person who you thought he was. The reason why its because that's not his name. Using someone else's id its illegal.
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Firstly the wife knowing very well her husband has a mistress should not be having a sexual relationship with him and knowing full well he uses the same toys on the wife as the mistress is disrespectful and disgusting. The wife needs to get a spine and stand up to her husband and tell him he gives up the mistress and goes to marriage counseling or he packs his bags; gets out and the wife files for divorce. Considering what the husband is doing he isn't worth keeping anyway.
Verbal abuse could lead to physical abuse or even to fatality! If you are in a marriage that has no love - get out!
When visiting another country and not knowing the language, it is very imperceptible to understand someone who is talking to you.