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not necesarily he may feel too guilty or ashamed of his own behaviour and by not talking about it he wont have to remind himself of this. The liklihood is he will talk about it only when he is ready to do so. If he is trying to keep your marriage together he wont want to bring up past mistakes I can understand your need to know and try to understand what went on etc but try to put this to the back of your mind for now until he is ready to talk to you. It's not the ideal situation I know I was like your husband and I just wanted to forget it ever happened I learnt my lesson believe me! I know it must be difficult for you with him not talking about it but there will come a day you may not get all the answers but you will get something. If you both want to keep the marraige alive focus on your future together try to stay positive and if he wants to talk at any point let him do it without interruption/criticism and then he may be able to answer some of your doubts and questions. Good luck

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Q: Husband had affair 2 yrs ago acted shady the first year he still wont talk about why or what went wrong does this mean he was greiving over her?
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