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Could you set aside the pain your husband gave you from his affair for the sake of your young children?
Mgodat
- Each individual woman is different when it comes to forgiving her husband for having an affair and it is a personal decision by that woman. Once that bond of trust is broken it is difficult for the wife to trust her husband and generally that mistrust turns into questioning the husband if he should be late coming home to where he is going and eventually some men will simply leave the marriage on that basis. Not only that, but the wife feels demeaned or sometimes unattractive because she can subconsciously feel she is unattractive or her husband wouldn't have found it necessary to have an affair. Of course is most cases this is not true and the husband would cheat no matter how attractive his wife is. If your husband has had more than one affair before it is more than likely he will have another one. If this is the first affair he has had then humans make mistakes and it is worth trying to resolve problems in your marriage by seeking out a good marriage counselor, but only if your husband is willing. If your husband refuses to get marriage counseling or does not want to give up the woman he has had the affair with or feels threatened by you to walk away from the affair then no, it is not wise to stay in such an unsettled and toxic marriage for the sake of the children. If you and your husband decide to dissolve the marriage then try to do it on a friendly basis for the sake of the children as children often blame themselves for their parents divorcing. Make sure you try to appear to be friends in front of the children and agree that your husband pays child support and has joint custody of his children so the children can have both parents in their lives. If you do not want to be quite so drastic as to apply for divorce you could try separating for awhile to see if you and your husband cannot work things out, but be sure the children get to see him or even stay with this father on weekends and some holidays.
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How can you forgive your husband if he set aside your own children aside just to be with his affair partner?
There is no forgiving him. If he puts his own kids aside for someone else he doesn't care. So I wouldn't forgive him.
How do you not put your kids in the middle after your spouse has an affair?
It is extremely important that the couple are mature enough to realize that the children simply see their 'mom and dad' and love them both and often do not understand problems their parents have in their lives. Therefore, if you must discuss the affair send the children to the grandparents; another relative in the family or go on a mini vacation where you can have two or three days to discuss the affair and what both of you are going to do about it. Since the spouse that had the affair has broken that strong bond of trust with their spouse it will take time for them to earn that trust back. Meanwhile, put your hurts and anger aside when around the children and seek marriage counseling where the counselor will give the spouses tools to not only deal with why one spouse feels the need to have had an affair, but also how to deal with the children.
Should you tell his wife you had an affair with him?
Question is, should you be posting questions like these that could easily show up on your search history. That aside, nope. He'll deal with it. He's the one that's married.
What is set aside for the remembrance of deceased infants and children?
November 2nd
How do you stay married after the affair?
Now that he has cheated on you the trust between the to of you is gone. But idf you could put aside his mistake and give him the opportunity to gain that trust back then you might be Abe to make it work depending on your love for him ..you have to ask yourself "can I still love this man?"
Should you continue a long-distance affair with a married man?
Moral arguments about cheating aside, a person should break off a long distance affair with a married man. If he is unfaithful with his wife, he probably won't be faithful to you, especially long distance.
What day is set aside for the remembrance of deceased infants and children?
November 2nd
Man should stay at home and be a house husband caring for the children while the mother goes to work?
Parenting is a shared responsibility and it may also mean making up for the other's shortcomings. Becoming a house husband should not be a problem because there are ways to become productive while at home aside from taking care of the kids and taking charge of responsibilities.
Can an inlaw adopt a son in law?
If I understand the question correctly you are asking if you may adopt YOUR son-in-law who would be your daughters husband. Aside from the complicated family relationship issues I suppose that it could be legally possible IF it conforms to the laws of your state.
Do gosselins have to put part of salary aside in trust for the children?
Yes, college trusts were established for the children at the time of their birth. Kate consistently says she does it for the kids, so it would seem reasonable that if money has not been deposited in the Pennsylvania state funds, and alternative has been established.
What does the word standeseidel?
"Stand aside" means to let someone else take your place. If you were president of the company and you had problems then you could stand aside so someone else could take over.
Who gets the custody of the child if the mother is legally married and having another man?
Aside from the fact that would be a minor medical miracle, I assume you mean having an affair? see link
