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Did your husband had physical affair with this woman? If he did I think it's time for you to put your feet out there and tell him what is wrong with your relationship together. If he don't comply with you, then talk to that woman he work with and be person who do cares about you not wanting for her to connect with your husband anymore because he is not being honest with you.
I do am sorry for what you've been going through. I know it's very hard to accept when your husband can't talk to you like a best friend, instead he rather talk to this woman who is not his wife. Some married men who having an affair will say that it's easier to talk with the other woman, she can understand him a lot better than you.
One thing that you can do is take care of yourself if you don't it will make you sick. You will experience that your in a dark place because of what you discovered. Your pain will cut through your heart because of what he did. Do not believe to everything he will tell you, like they never has sex, your husband will not last 2 years without sleeping with her.
And now the worst scenario that you will face is your husband already in love with the other woman, that is why his relationship lasted 2 years. Right now you need to be around with your family that will comfort you, you can't do this by yourself. hope that you can get through this..
Your question says cheated so I assume it is in the past. If he swears he is not cheating and there is no evidence to the contrary, then you have to take him at his word. It is pretty drastic to make him quit his job. Try to work through it.
You should think of it this way....How would you feel if your husband was having an "emotional affair" with someone...? Let the man dig his own hole, but dont be the one that helps him...He got married for a reason, so atleast let him get divorced before you start anything with him... Oh and what makes you think that a year down the road, he wont be having an "emotional affair" with someone else....if you do it once, 9 times out of ten you will do it again....hope this helped you out in some kind of way
It depends on the people involved
No reason why not unless someone is trying to break it up. ANSWER: Gosh! I do am sorry, but knowing what he did during your first year of marriage, how can you trust him if he will be truthful and honest with you. He broke the oath that the two of you said in front of God and friends, so you must really think if your life will be the same again.
YES
Time to end the marriage and move on to someone who will be a real husband.
why dont you tell him why you had the affair and then he might back off abit
If you husband has had an affair, then it is quite likely he will do this agian, some men are just built this way. If you are not happy you need to decided if you can live with this possibility or not and take things from there.
No year. They did NOT have an affair.
My long time partner, heterosexual, of 27 years has been having a 5 year affair with a co-worker whose husband is HVC positive from kidney dialysis. He does not know if the girlfriend has been tested or if she is intimate with her husband or others. We have been intimate since I did not have knowledge of the affair until two months ago. The affair is on going. Should he be tested for the virus?
he is proberly angry because he got caught and hes mad that the person that found out with give him problems.Hope this helps.=)
My long time partner, heterosexual, of 27 years has been having a 5 year affair with a co-worker whose husband is HVC positive from kidney dialysis. He does not know if the girlfriend has been tested or if she is intimate with her husband or others. We have been intimate since I did not have knowledge of the affair until two months ago. The affair is on going. Should he be tested for the virus?
Ask him. And if you're already suspicious, there's probably a reason.