Husband promises to wear his wedding band then rarely wears it he said he would?

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I have an engagement ring and a wedding band, but my husband requested he didn't want a wedding band. Men can work in jobs where wearing rings can be dangerous (getting caught in machinery) and it doesn't mean he's cheating on you. He doesn't wear a band, and because of the work I have to do sometimes I only wear mine when going out. Means nothing! If he doesn't want to wear it don't make him, but, if you like yours then wear it and don't use it to try and make a point with him. I highly doubt it has anything to do with him cheating on you. MarcyMy husband has been a muscle car/stock car/collector car mechanic for over 30 years. He ALWAYS wears his wedding ring, course its just a small gold band. The only problem he ever had with it was little beads of welding flux stuck to it, and he buffed them off himself with his grinder/buffer at work. If MY husband didn't wear his wedding ring, EITHER WOULD I...............IF IT'S GOOD FOR THE GOOSE.............. My husband builds yachts and is around many acidic properties and fiberglass and his wedding ring wouldn't last a week under those conditions. He use to work in a saw mill years ago and it was a stipulation by management that no rings were to be worn after an employee got his ring caught in a piece of machinery and lost his finger. Some men don't like jewelry and my husband is one of them. He received a beautiful gold ring with a diamond in it from a yacht company he previously worked for and he never wears that either. The only thing he wears is his watch. I can deal with that. I don't always wear my wedding band or engagement ring either. Doing housework, gardening, etc., I like to keep my good rings in good shape. I also fear if I take my ring off before doing a chore I'll lose it again! LOL I think the person asking the question shouldn't make a big deal out of it and if she doesn't want to wear her ring either then don't. That simple. Some people believe if their husband doesn't wear a wedding band (means diddly anyway .... they can take it off at anytime) means they are cheating. That's not always true. My first husband was also a mechanic and drag raced on the weekends. He wore a wedding band and it never stopped him from cheating and that's why I divorced him. My second husband has never owned a wedding band and has never cheated on me (and I've never cheated on him.) Go figure!