i wouldn't be brave enough to do this but if i was i would tell him how i feel about him. if you do that then he will start to respect more and you can well heres exactly what i would tell him. say the guys name then say did you know that that's my best friend and that i really like you and it really hurts me so if you could stop flirting with her i would really appriciate it. or so you don't kill your self you could just talk to your friend about it. my best friend understands EVERYTHING well almost. but if you tell her that its bothering you than if she is a true friend than she will try to find a way to stop it. sorry its so long. i usually hate typing.
Jamesphelpslover:
i would tell ur best friend about it and see what she thinks about it. if that doesnt work, i would talk to him more and ask him if he wanted to hang out. sorry, i know it is not the best advice out there!!!!!!!!
Best friends don't do that to their friends. She is not your friend and I would tell her this. Find a better friend. I know it hurts, but sometimes you are left with no choice and this is one of them.
it means that in the back of your mind you are confused whether you want you ex to be just your friend or be your lover again... i mean it still hurts if you see him or her in the arms of another but you don't want to make a relationship with him or her again....
if he's your best friend you should be able to tell him anything, and he should know better! but i mean just pull him aside and tell him you don't appreciate him flirting with your g/f OR PUT YOUR FOOT UP HIS A**
i have no idea izzy!
see if he is flirting it is easy to see
He'd say it
It could be an innocent mistake, consider talking to him about it and asking him to back down. If he is a good friend this should resolve the problem. If he refuses you should consider getting better friends.
can't hurt to ask
Tell them noob
This can mean only one thing: love is in bloom.
First find out if that's the actual circumstances. If your best friend is flirting with you, he's being a little overly "friendly" and should have some respect for who you've chosen.
Well in my experience I have had that happened and I'll tell you what I did....I went and started flirting with his best friend. He liked me and I knew it so I went for it. It made him jealous and I got revenge . I did hurt the other guy though so you have to be careful to not mix feelings.... ANSWER Of course you are still going to have feelings for him but you have ended your relationship. Be the better person and let it go. Who he flirts with is his business, not yours. Did YOU break up with HIM? If so, then he may be using your best friend to try to 'get back at you' and make you jealous. Sometimes, when you break up with someone, if they still love you, they will try different tactics to get you back. But flirting with your best friend so soon after the break-up is in poor taste. But, if HE broke up with YOU, then he may be flirting with your best friend to try to convince you that it's over. But again, using your best friend is not a good thing. You need to tell your friend how you feel, but don't do it in an angry or accusing manner. Simply explain to her that you still love him, and it hurts you for them to flirt with each other. Also, as the answer above states, since you and he are no longer together, he is free to flirt with whom he chooses. It's just in really poor taste for him to go after your best friend.