If a guy cheated on you is it okay or your family to call him a traitor if they know you're still in love with him?

The best thing to do is get rid of this guy. Name-calling by your family and yourself just lowers all of you to his level. Perhaps he could change, but I highly doubt it. You deserve better! By shaming him with name-calling it is only going to drive him away, and guys like this never change. It's hard to love someone and make a decision to move on with your life, but this is what you should do if you want to find that special someone that really loves you. People who love each other don't cheat! I was married before when I was 21 years old. My husband-to-be cheated on me on more than one occasion. I loved him so much I ignored the complaints and fears of family and friends. I had to learn the hard way! I ended up leaving him not quite 4 years later. He had continued to cheat and then became verbally and physically abusive. I did move on and found a wonderful man and we've been married 33 years. Good luck Marcy
The best thing to do is get rid of this guy. Name-calling by your family and yourself just lowers all of you to his level. Perhaps he could change, but I highly doubt it. You deserve better! By shaming him with name-calling it is only going to drive him away, and guys like this never change. It's hard to love someone and make a decision to move on with your life, but this is what you should do if you want to find that special someone that really loves you. People who love each other don't cheat! I was married before when I was 21 years old. My husband-to-be cheated on me on more than one occasion. I loved him so much I ignored the complaints and fears of family and friends. I had to learn the hard way! I ended up leaving him not quite 4 years later. He had continued to cheat and then became verbally and physically abusive. I did move on and found a wonderful man and we've been married 33 years. Good luck Marcy