The situation that you describe suggest that the married man and his mistress have mixed feelings. This is not unusual. They can see reasons why they want to continue their affair (perhaps the sex is really fun) and they can see other reasons to end the affair (perhaps to avoid damaging the man's marriage or causing him to pay a large divorce settlement).
So let me get this straight. Did I get this right?
- husband cheated on wife, then tried to end it
- mistress managed to talk him into staying
- wife caught husband
- husband promised to end the extramarital relationship, this time for good
Could the mistress talk him again into cheating?
My answer is: quite likely. I'm sorry but you're dealing with a weak-willed man. Not saying it's not possible for him to end it with her for good. Of course I don't know what happened, and how you two are, and if you're getting couple therapy, but if he couldn't resist having an affair, and then couldn't end it when he felt remorse, you're in for some pretty painful times.
Usually the man would go back to her because he knows no matter what that she will satisfy him although he doesn't really want to be with her.
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There are some married man that will go back to his ex mistress. The relationship they had was different from his wife and himself. The bond that you had from this married man was deeper and most of it were emotional. But don't take my words for it, if he is given a chance and knowing he experience how good having an affair is, he will do it again but it will be different woman. It's like being addicted on drugs, drugs can make you feel good, the more you take it, the more you will try but different drugs.
Can you tell me why you want to blackmail this married man who is not worth it? Wasn't it enough that he ruined your life while having a relationship with you? You can do a lot of things to pay him back, but don't put yourself as low as this man. Maybe it will make you feel good if he pays for what he did to you, but ask yourself if he is worth your time. Why don't you tell him to get lost, and if he says no just tell him that you will call a cop and tell them what's going on. This married man will always cheat, he did it with his wife and lie to her, and he can do the same thing to you. It's time for you to close this book and never open it anymore. Life is to short for you to give your life to a married man.
Are you the person they were cheating or was it someone else? If someone was cheating you, I would say I didn't want to be their girlfriend (or boyfriend if you are a guy) anymore and that I saw them cheating. If it is someone else that was being cheated, I would tell the person who is being cheated and tell the person what I saw the person do.
I THINK HE PROBABLY IS CHEATING ON YOU.BUT ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUTS .
You are probably missing your cheating ex husband because even though he cheated on you, you may still love him.
well.... because he's an idiot
22% of married men have cheated on their wives and 14% of married women have cheated on their husbands, according to current data. The data is inaccurate, because most couples will not admit to cheating in the first place.
He will leave & you deserve it. YOU CHEATED ON HIM. It's not fair to him to be cheated on without knowing & it's unfair for you to leave HIM because YOU cheated. Cheating, if you want to cheat then face the consequences.
if he weren't cheating he would have told you about it try to squeeze the answer out of him, because he deffily cheated
Well being that obviously he disobeyed her once he's not going to not talk to his ex mistress because she told him not to because if he cheated on his wife, he probably doesn't care about her so much so he probably just needs some time to think things through.
most probably to make her feel special since he had to go back to his wife
It means that he has fallen in love again with the woman.But something I want to know:If the married man felt so bad and angry when his mistress cheated him,could he imagine the situation when his wife would know that HE CHEATED on him.He must be very ashamed of himself.
No one deserves to be cheated on!!!! LET HIM GO GIRL.
If this man or woman your ex, you can't be upset anymore. If your talking about when the two of you were still couples, yes who wouldn't get upset knowing that your spouse is cheating on you. Now that the two of you is not couples anymore, you can't be upset to what he or she is doing.