If a woman felt unloved and then cheated and broke up with her long-term boyfriend how would she feel if the guy unexpectedly cried?

Answer 1

This situation should never happen in the first place. Instead of good old communication and expressing one's feelings the person who feels unloved (and many like her) make up all kinds of excuses to fit the scenario instead of communicating. They feel cheating is easier, but it's unfair to their mate because the woman hasn't made one bit of effort to truly communicate her feelings and work on her marriage (same goes for guys.) Cheating is cheap and there is no excuse for it. You either decide you aren't happy in the relationship and make a clean break and are free to date others, but, the person cheating is selfish and inwardly feels if it doesn't work out in the affair they can go back to their mate like a comfy old slipper. If I were the woman that cheated (and I wouldn't) and my long-term boyfriend cried I'd feel lower than a snake's belly and realize I'd made one terrible mistake and also how selfish I had been not to even try at the relationship and had come not only become unavailable to other's feelings, but had made up excuses for the actions I took. That depends on the womans compassion. Obviously, the respect is not there if she cheated on a long time love. If she has a heart it may bother her, if she no longer has feelings for him, it may not.