That's up to the hospital. However, it seems unlikely that the spend-down amount will cover a significant part of the expense - i.e., Medicaid is going to end up paying most of the bill.
In order to receive Medicare or Medicaid at age 42, you must be "totally and permanently disabled" as defined by Social Security regulations. This is different from your employer's determination of disability. You may receive Medicaid, even if you are not disabled per Social Security regulations, if you have minor dependent child(ren).
VA disability does not automatically make one eligible for Medicaid; you will have to submit your medical records to Medicaid. However, it seems likely to me that you would qualify.
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Yes, altho the amount of UIB might put you over the Medicaid income limit.
In general, yes, but you might be ineligible if the felony involved the Medicaid program.
Only if your family's income/assets are within the Medicaid standards.
There is no upper limit to the amount of benefits one may receive from Medicaid.
You may receive Medicaid regardless of your Social Security status.
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If your income exceeds the Medicaid standard in your State, you will have to "spend down" the excess to qualify for Medicaid.
To receive Medicaid, one must be a resident of the State which is providing that assistance. I believe that one may still receive Medicare even if living outside the U.S.
if she is credit worthy yes