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LET HIM GO NOW! you don't want to be the girl who broke up a marriage and it would be even worse if there are kids involved. Just break it off.

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Do you want an actual relationship with him? Tell him bluntly that you're ending the relationship and that he can contact you when the ink on his divorce papers is dry. Because at this point, he's getting his cake and giving you crumbs. He's not getting a divorce, he's comfortable in the current situation. Whatver feelings he has for you will do not interfere with his marriage. Maybe he claims to not love his wife, or stays with her just for his kids, but he is happy in his comfort zone marriage, with an affair on the side.

Affairs thrive on excitement and seem more intense, simply because of the constraints of time on the people involved. You don't live with him, you don't see his bad traits, how he treats his family and friends, deals with stress, etc. Even if he did decide to leave his marriage and be with you, you'll be in for a rude awakening over his flaws.

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You cannot base your happiness on the unhappiness of others. I could probably tell you word for word what he says about his wife, his sex life, his children and his reasons for having affairs, and so could thousands of other women...unfortunately, you will not be his first affair and you will not be his last affair. Please protect yourself emotionally and, if you must continue your relationship, do so with the realization that there is absolutely no future in it for you. It's not a question of 'letting hiime go', because he is not really 'there' - it's more a question of putting yourself first! Please give yourself a chance to do that...

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When you meet "The One", you want him to be someone with integrity; someone who is happy and trustworthy. Unfortunately, this guy is none of those things. He is still connected to another person by marriage, which is a commitment that goes beyond the heart, with children, finances in common and so on. And, he hasn't done what he needs to do for your best interests and his. Any man you start a relationship with should be unmarried, complete with signed divorce papers before you even start. Expect more and you can get it!

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