If you are in love with your best friend but he is dating another girl should you just let them be together or should you fight for him?

Answer 1

It sounds like "My Best Friend's Wedding." Are you sure it's love or perhaps possibly the thought of losing the great friendship you had with him? If it was love you had a long while to tell him how you felt, but didn't and you are going to have to ask yourself why. I'd leave him alone right now while he's dating this girl. Dating doesn't always last forever so if he's free again this is the opportunity to sit down and take the risk of telling him how you really feel about him. Good luck I think if he felt the same way you did, he'd be dating you. If you are truly their friends then let it be. You will look very shallow if you interfere with their relationship at this point. I am wondering why you didn't make your feelings for him known before he decided to date someone so far away. If you have already told him and he opted not to date you, then you need to move on. You can tell him how you feel, if you haven't, but be prepared for an answer that you don't want to hear. Best bet, let them be and if and when it doesn't work out then you can consider fighting for him and seeing if a relationship between the two of you is able to be had. Good luck.