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If you can prove what the ex mistress is been doing but the husband does not want to hurt her how can the wife move on?
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∙ 13y ago
- The husband is certainly confused and he should be thinking of how he is hurting his wife and not worrying so much about the mistress. Any wife dealing with a cheating husband can be in control of the situation. Communication is very important and the wife should make it clear to the husband she is not living under the same roof as him and share him with another woman. Take the risk and tell him it is either his mistress or you and give him two weeks and no more. If he cannot stop seeing the mistress then it is time to think of getting a divorce. If you have children together be sure he pays child support. All women are strong, but some women never realize just how strong they are. When a woman can get out in the reality of life and feel independent and know they do not need a man in their life to provide for them and she is in control of her life and can handle anything that comes her way is the time when that particular woman is ready for a healthy relationship with a man.
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Does the wife usually tell her husband not to talk to the mistress anymore after the affair has been discovered or does the husband make that choice?
You shouldn't even stay married to him if that happens! ANSWER: I did mine, and yes our husband has the choice to do it if they want to. But the question is will it be the right thing to do if the husband still kept the communication from his mistress ( ex). If the spouse wont stop, this is a sign that no matter what you ask him he will ignore you, is showing that he can't live without being connected with his mistress.
How can you prove that a child has been adopted by ex spouses husband?
By producing the adoption order.
Ending an affair?
how does a husband who claims he fell in love with his mistress end this affair i thought we've been happily married for twenty seven years
When a wife looks at her husband after he cheated on her is she always going to think about what he did?
For a while yes she will, because the pain is hard and deep and she will learn to put a shield around her. She will think how her husband make love to his mistress. She will think if her husband kissed his mistress the way he kiss her. Even if her husband affair is been over, she will always think what his mistress have that she don't have. There will be a lot that will remind her no matter what, especially for the first year of the discovery. It will take time to really forget but when or if she do it will feel like a big thorn on her side is finally lift of. ANSWER: I do agree to everything she had said to you because it really happens in real life and myself included.
Does husband still love mistress even tho mistress called off 5 year affair and called his wife?
There's a lot of scenario that you need to look at. If your husband wasn't the one that broke the relationship with his mistress, then his feelings for her will hunt him for a while, knowing the years they spent together. You ask yourself why his mistress called you, after all this years, could it be that your husband promise her that he will divorce you or even move out so he can be with her. Maybe your husband is been promising his mistress from the start and never done anything about it, so she got fed up. Even if this is what's going on with them, I think you need to tell your husband to move out. Don't let him manipulate you by saying sorry or he didn't mean to do it. 5 years affair is five years and no one can justify what he did with you. Don't believe everything your husband and his mistress is telling you. This is not your problem but his, so it's time for you to kick him out so this issue will not be in your hand.
If you are the mistress would you apologize to your lovers family for the affair he started with you?
Hell NO! The wife should be thanking you! You did her a favour... if it wasn't u it would have been someone else! ANSWER: If I am the mistress would I apologize to his family especially the wife, heck no. I don't know the wife, all I know is what my married lover told me about her. And why do I, if it wasn't me who started it all. My only mistakes is by not saying no to my married lover. Now why is it when marriage is been broken, the first person who got blame is the other woman, especially the wife. It doesn't matter what the mistress did, the husband is the one that needs to explain period. There are some mistress who is pain in the butt, but do remember she also got hurt by your husband.
Ex-wife falsely accusing of arrears in child support?
If the ex husband can prove that he has been paying by checue regularly and the passbook shows it, then the ex husband can sue that wife for even extortion.
When the wife finds out and the husband turns on the mistress?
ANSWER:Are you talking about the wife discovered her husband's affair? If she did and her husband made a choice of going to his mistress, the answer is right in front of you. Your husband pick the other woman and I know its sad after what you've been through. Now you must think about you now, and make a decision to do the right thing.Let me tell you what had happen to me, I discovered the man I marry's affair. My children and I was shock and our world change that moment I caught him. Instead of being concerned that I discovered his affair, he was more concerned on calling his mistress and warned her that I knew what's going on. And this is the man I spent 2 decade of my life waiting for him and making his life comfortable.
Why would a married man tell you he was getting attached to you but ends up getting caught cheating and then when you asked him about his feelings he told you that you took it the wrong way?
Most mistresses take pride in thinking that they have succeeded in stealing another woman's husband which makes the mistress feel special and that she is the one and only in the life of the married man. Men who cheat have no backbone or commitment and they are looking for extra sex on the side. They use the mistress to possibly gain their youth back and to prove to himself that he can still attract other women. It's all about him and not about the wife or mistress. Most men just want a mistress to 'be there' for sex even though he may take her out to clubs or restaurants or even buy her gifts. In other words she is no more than a paid escort that will deliver sex when he whistles. Now that this married man has been caught he's trying to put the blame on you. The wife should not blame the mistress, but her husband. Be smart and stick to single men.
Should you respond to email from husbands mistress?
Depends on what the email said. You should talk to your husband. The mistress would have to be really backed into a corner to write to you..... possibly if the husband was messing with the other womans head and telling her he didn't know how to tell his wife he was leaving (or couldn't do it). Most mistress' want the wife to know, because they would want to know if it was their husband doing it to them. She probably thought she was ready for you (the wife) to find out..... but I'm betting after she sent that email she regretted it and wished she hadn't sent it. Personally I'd write back a VERY short reply, something along the lines of "got your email, will discuss this with husband, please do not email me again." ANSWER: If it was me and my case is a bit different, I will confront the other woman from the email she send to my husband. But I will talk top him first and see if there's something he needs to tell me, and this depends on if I don't have no clue that his having an affair. Knowing how long we've been married, I will know if he is lying to me or not. And if I discovered that his been cheating on me, then I will demand for him to answer the email he have from his mistress in front of me. Knowing his already on a hot seat with me, it will be I who will tell him what to write so there's no such things as clue or warning that I find out. But don't take my words for it, this is what I will do if it was me.
Why would man take mistress home to meet wife?
ANSWER: No one will ever know except you and the husband, but if this event is going to happen the married man might introduce his mistress to his wife as one of his friend who work with him. Or it could be that they were old friends and been cheating without the wife knowing about it. God only knows..
How can you get your penalty points removed?
An allegation that an offence has been committed does not necessarily have to lead to a conviction. It still falls to the police/prosecution to prove the offence. For example, they have to be able to prove it was you driving at the time of the incident, and not someone else with access to the car such as a husband or wife.
