If you have been in an on-again off-again relationship with a narcissist for nine years does he think he is powerful because he keeps dumping you?
A narcissist is a hair away from being an abuser of the worst
kind. They are artists at brain-washing, confusing the person they
are with, and they want to win because it makes them feel more
powerful! They are ego-trippers, feel they are more intelligent
than the rest of society and are extremely selfish. Although they
can love at the beginning of a relationships the chameleon side of
them eventually comes out and it can be ugly. Yes! Everytime you
keep going back to him each times he dumps you he not only hates
you, but hates himself. He hates the fact he wants you in his life,
and hates you for allowing it. It's time to move on hon. You did
nothing wrong with the exception of going back into this abusive
relationship. You deserve better than this!