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If you have been in an on-again off-again relationship with a narcissist for nine years does he think he is powerful because he keeps dumping you?
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∙ 17y ago
A narcissist is a hair away from being an abuser of the worst kind. They are artists at brain-washing, confusing the person they are with, and they want to win because it makes them feel more powerful! They are ego-trippers, feel they are more intelligent than the rest of society and are extremely selfish. Although they can love at the beginning of a relationships the chameleon side of them eventually comes out and it can be ugly. Yes! Everytime you keep going back to him each times he dumps you he not only hates you, but hates himself. He hates the fact he wants you in his life, and hates you for allowing it. It's time to move on hon. You did nothing wrong with the exception of going back into this abusive relationship. You deserve better than this!
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Why is would a narcissist ex be nice to you out of the blue while still in a relationship with another woman?
because she might like you
How do you help a narcissist?
The question is help them how? Refer them to counseling, but they don't want to be fixed, though you may want to fix them to be a 'normal' person so you can keep a relationship with them. If you are a lay person and in a relationship with a narcissist, you cannot help them. Just by the nature of your relationship and the pathology of a narcissist, things will get ugly, it will be at your expense and there will be no change in the narcissist. A good therapist will be the one to help a narcissist, but it takes a great deal of work on the part of the narcissist, a commitment to healing, only they don't see themselves as 'broken' or anything wrong with them, so an honest introspective communication with a therapist is rare. It's so hard to understand. Leaving them is best for you though and isn't that sad that that is also the way to help a narcissist, because they are sucking your goodness from you and using it to buoy themselves. So sad.
Why are romantic relationships SO much more powerful than any other kind of relationship?
Because romantic relationship is something that make us happy than an other kind of relationship, romantic relationship is a long relationship
will a narcissist ex ever want you back when you have his baby but he is seeing someone new?
No. He will never try to get you back because he is eyeing someone else and he is more interested in a new physical relationship.
Why would a narcissist want you back if he thinks you cheated on him?
Why would you WANT to go back? Narcissists will make up stuff to blame you with just to get out of the relationship. They NEVER take responsibility. Do NOT go back. Institute NO CONTACT and run!
How do you make a relationship with a narcissist successful?
It can be challenging to have a successful relationship with a narcissist because they often lack empathy and prioritize their own needs. Communication, setting boundaries, and seeking support from a therapist or counselor can be helpful in navigating the relationship. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and consider if the relationship is truly healthy for you.
Can a narcissistic PD and a histrionic PD have a lasting relationship?
I'm inclined to believe that the Narcissist will either not stick around because they hate to be needed or loved, only they are allowed to love them (everyone else exists for them to used and abuse to make them feel powerful and special) or they will use, humiliate and bully the HPD person into near or possible suicide, but that's only my opinion.
If a narcissist marries someone with Borderline Personality Disorder do they have a better chance of making the marriage work longterm?
In my humble opinion, they have no chance of any meaningful relationship because of the inability to love. This is a very difficult combination; the borderline will have a deep fear of rejection and so does the narcissist. The Narcissist is likely to lie and cheat which compounds the Borerlines fear of rejection, the lack of empathy from the narcissist replays the early injuries to the Borderline. There is a very good book. The Narcissistic/Borderline Couple - A Psychoanalytic Perspective on marital treatment.
Why does your narcissist boyfriend treat everyone else better?
Because the narcissist always has to have someone to kick around. As long as you're available to kick around, he's happy to keep up some sort of relationship. As soon as you stand up on your own two feet,, he starts to look for someone else to kick.
Why do narcissists cheat?
Yes Narcissist cheats. I have read one who satisfies their narcissistic supply with sex is called a Somatic Narcissist. My ex married one-and he is a pathological narcissist as I know I lived it-It is the most insidious emotional abuse one can encounter- A Somatic Narcissist tends to be very promiscuous-she/he disregards her marriage and have multiple affairs just to satisfy their need for narcissist supply -Admiration-power--The Somatic Narcissist will capture you - control you with their sexual seduction and when he/she has you completely in their control her true self will come out-cruel and unemotional-and when you no longer satisfy their narcissistic supply the Somatic Narcissist will leave you as quickly as he/she entered your life-and onto the next-As I understand Somatic Narcissist have many affairs --regardless married or not. Question what happens when one Narcissist marries another Narcissist-it should be interesting to watch
Do narcissists or people with PDs try to rekindle relationships even if they've been dumped?
A "true" narcissist will always, without fail, attempt to hang onto any relationship in which the narcissist gains "narcissistic supply." A "true" narcissist will not be deterred! They will do what it takes, say what it takes and follow-up with whatever actions are necessary to hang onto narcissistic supply. They will attempt to rekindle the broken relationship because they do not accept the fact that the relationship is over. If you respond in any manner...ie...phone calls, text messages, letters...etc...the narcissist accepts this as proof that he still holds some interest in your life. He will remain relentless in his attempt to gain any attention whatsoever from his supply...ie...you! You may find it flattering that someone seems so attached to you that they will do anything to keep you around, but just know that you are not a human being in the sense that we are human beings. People, to the "true" narcissist", are simply objects in which to gain the attention they so desperately crave. If you can accept that fact (and it is a fact) feel free to continue a relationship with a narcissist. However, if you ever wish to have a meaningful and intimate relationship, you should search out and find a healthy human being. The narcissist will always be a narcissist and there is nothing in the world that will change that fact. Nothing! It is unfortunate because, generally speaking, narcissists are talented, charming and successful people. They simply do not possess empathy or compassion for any human on the planet. Those emotions are not present in the narcissist nor will they ever become present. The part of the psychological make up found in normal-healthy minds is absolutely missing in the narcissist. EXAMPLE: If a person were born without legs, that person could have artificial legs attached. However, the artificial legs will never "grow" naturally. A person born without empathy or the capacity to love does have the ability to observe the behaviors of others who feel empathy and love. The narcissist can learn to mimick the behaviors of empathy and love. The narcissist will never have the ability to "grow" feelings of empathy or love. That simple!
How do you deal with grown children who have witnessed a fathers narcissist behavior but expect their mother to stay with him because breaking up the family is now your fault and too painful to accept?
Offer the option to the Father. Tell him stop his attitude because it is affecting your relationship.
