If you love a boy should you run after him?

Answer 1

*This is a quote from a young lady who understands relationships at a very young age. No boy is worth crying over; and the ones who are won't make you cry-Sarah Kane, Age Ten *That quote has a lot of truth in it. As far as running after boys go, I ran after boys a lot when I was younger, and here's what I have to say: Never, never, never run after a boy. I don't care how much you like him or feel like you can't live without him. Don't run after him. I have the advantage of looking back on my mistakes and now realize how stupid I was to use so many of my younger years chasing boys and being concerned about the boy I like liking me back. Look around you! Chances are you will find that it's the girls who don't run after boys who have boys running after them, unless, of course, there are other reasons boys are hanging out with certain girls which I won't go into. While young, you need to be concentrating on yourself and having fun. You only get one chance to be young and if your time is spent running after boys, you are cheating yourself of valuable time preparing yourself for your own life. Pursue whatever interests you have, do things with friends and family, do volunteer work, and other things you enjoy. Let the boys seek you out. Believe me, you won't be sorry.