QUESTION EXPLAINED: I started dating a guy around 4 months ago. We dated for around 3 when I started hanging out more with a guy friend of mine. I didn't tell him, because I knew he would be upset, but I didn't think there was anything to worry about. The guy ended up trying to kiss me and one thing lead to another and we broke up. We tried the friends with benefits thing but ended it when he thought I started acting too much like we were in a relationship. We were friends for a while, then started benefits again, and just recently I ended it telling him it was all or nothing. He is the best friend I have ever had, and does more "friend things" than anyone else I have ever known. I don't want to lose him as a friend, but I can't help finding myself still wanting to be with him. I know I made a mistake by not telling him who I was spending my time with an I feel horrible. I know that hurt him, but now I am hurting. After sex I ask him how he feels toward me and his reply is "A little more than a friend, but not like a girlfriend." I know the sex is wrong, but I am absolutely torn apart and I feel like Im leaving on this hope that maybe one day he will miss me. While I rarely see the guy that tried to kiss me anymore (I told my ex as soon as it happened), I still talk to him occassionally, almost as a source of comfort. I know that is wrong too. I want my comfort to be my ex. I miss him, and I'm so confused. What am I supposed to do?
If he asks you out, he wants to be more than friends.
u dont!
he probably just wants to be friends...sorry
Well if u like her go out with her if you dont just tell youre just friends
Yes. Let him but only at home. Dont let his friends find out.
it probably means that he just wants to be friends! dont take it tooo seriously! :D
yes and no cuz it depends how they are like, like for an example if theri alonely and they they dont really have any friends they try to go for the pop. kids
let her do it, you dont have the athority to tell her who she can and who she cant be frinds with but just keep a close eye on them.
yes he cannot make you do what you dont want to do
Well if you like him kiss him back (unless ur notready for it) if not explain to him that you dont feel that way about him but you would still like to be friends with him. If you do like him but your not ready for it then just say for the time being, i dont think i am ready for this. Also if your friends have either gone out with him or like him DONT KISS HIM (unless you check with ur friends before hand.
Autistic kids and teens do want friends, the idea that autistic people are anti-social is false. Autistic people often want friends but struggle to make and maintain friendships.
It means that she has feelings for you and wants to be more then just friends. but dont worry, if you dont feel the same, all you have to say is: i dont think we are right for each other or im sorry but no thanks. :)