If your girlfriend says that she and her male friend are just friends then why is she talking to him first thing in the morning and last thing at night?

Answer 1

There are a few things you can ask yourself to answer this. Has she ever been romantically involved with him? What kind of person is she, is she honest to you? You know, it's very possible that she is trying to make you slightly jealous. Couples do that! When she does mention him, do you react? If you don't, she might over do it a little bit looking and expecting a reaction from you. It could be that she is telling the truth and they are just very good friends. It is not unusual for girls to have good friends who are male. They could be not romantically interested in each other at all. Talking about things each day regularly may be how they bounce things off a friend of the opposite sex to help each other get a different perspective on daily events and other relationships. Unless you have reasons to doubt what she is telling you, relax and get to know him and you may find you and he have things in common besides her, too. It might even help you and your girlfriend become closer when she sees how much you can trust each other and how mature you can be in the relationship.