in my opinion he is probably co-dependant on you and keeps you around for security. you need to put your foot down, if he thinks youll always be there, things will never change. besides, im sure there is someone out there that would give you the respect you deserve. you only live once, don't spend you life with someone wh makes you question yourself. he probably doesnt even deserve you. just remember to make yourself happy. good luck i hope things get better for you.
Why would you want to stay with him? Maybe it's a fear thing on his part. Right now he's got him cake and eating it too. I'd say, close the kitchen and let him know that you deserve better!
Do you have kids? Have you been married a long time? Has he cheated on you before? Maybe he is committed to you out of duty and habit and doesn't want to be the one to end the marriage. Maybe he is weak. Has he been truthful to you? Has he shown you THAT much respect? Do YOU want HIM? Everyone deserves to be loved deeply. That includes you.
I have the perfect thing for you to read. It is called his needs her needs by Farley(sorry don't have the book in front of me Don't remember first name) he answers that very question but if you love your husband and want your marriage then hang on baby but he must stay away and have no contact. PLEASE read that book
I just reread your question the key words are MOST RECENT AFFAIR!
Answer 2: It is called having your cake and eating it too. Your husband is having the best of both worlds, he gets to have you his wife at home, but he also gets to carry on an adulterous relationship. This is a total lack of respect for you. Your husband is not committed to you at all, he just finds it easier. DO NOT PUT UP WITH THIS, MOVE ON. You deserve soooo much more.
you wouldn't.
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i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
It would be wise to get a lawyer before your husband manages to hide most of his assets.
No. I believe a one-night stand is something a couple can work out, but if it was a long time affair and a child came of it, then it would end in divorce.
No, a man does not always get custody. If one of the people in a marriage has an affair, it is usually the person not having an affair that gets custody of the child or children.For example, if the husband is having an affair, and the wife wants a divorce, the woman (wife) would get the custody of the child or children, and not the man (husband). This is the same vice versa, too.
If she is trying to get him back, or still wants him.. Then I would believe your husband. If she is absolutely done with him, then believe her. Good Luck!!
No. A woman would only cheat on her husband if she doesn't love him. Love begets respect. Once a woman cheats, she has lost her respect towards his husband and once her husband learns about the cheating, no doubt there will be no more respect left inside the marriage. The last I read from the American Association of Psychologists said one night stands are nothing more than an extreme form of masturbation.
She doesn't want to be with her husband. If you're the husband, communicate with her about the problem and address the issues. Otherwise it will be too late.
It could be very tempting for her after all she is only human and the husband is unable to look after her sexual needs. Needs and urges that are there regardless of being deserted by her husband.
i believe that would be the best solution,if your wife wants to be seperated.
Most people who have a conscience would feel haunted by the fact they are cheating on their husband and the affair would suffer because of it. Also you could run the risk of being caught by your husband and some men are not willing to forgive so easily when hurt that badly. If you love your husband then it would be wise of you to end the affair immediately. If you do not love your husband then do not keep cheating, but let your husband know the truth and file for divorce and then, and only then should you be seeing this other man. When in doubt put yourself in the shoes of your husband!