Verbal abuse wears many forms. Isolating you from your friends is a form of control freakery. If this is an isolated event, you may overlook it, forgive, and forget. But if this is a repetitive behavior - he is an abuser.
My husband can not be my girlfriend. Because I can not do sex with him in return.
Yes sure, Love is the foundation of marriage. So your husband should be engulf in love with you.
Google marriage restoration. Read the Christian sites and get to work.
Chances that you have some claim are very good. But get an attorney and file right away so your husband can't pull something that will cause you to be excluded. It happens. Protect yourself.
The most important thing in marriage is communication skills! It appears both of you are lacking this. You need to sit down and let your husband know that you are not about to share him with his ex girlfriend and you are tired of him being reminded of ex girlfriend when his loyalty and love should only be directed towards you. Since he married you he shouldn't even be thinking of his ex. Yes, there are memories we all have with past loves, but we do not let them interfere with our marriage.
* If you husband does not have a girlfriend and you dream of speaking with your husband's girlfriend then it generally is the fact you are having marriage problems and fear that your some other woman will take your husband away. If your husband does have a girlfriend then you should not even have him living in your home and if he is seeing another woman and living with you then no wonder you are having dreams of speaking with your husband's girlfriend. She is the mistress and you don't have to say anything. It is your husband you should be speaking too and tell him to make up his mind if it's you or his mistress. The up side is that more often than not men who have a mistress on the side and when faced with an ultimatum by their wife will generally choose the wife, but if he should not then it's highly unlikely he will stay with his mistress long as he will want more freedom.
You are related to your husband by marriage. He is your spouse.
it means that only God can save your marriage and you NEED OUT!!!! It most likely means either that your husband loves you, but needs a little more excitement in a certain area of his life or your husband stands to lose alot in the divorce. Its cheaper for him this way.
Maybe your girlfriend isn't over her ex husband.
Your husband is securing his financial future without any concern for yours. Watch out or you'll get screwed in the divorce. Yes you should be concerned. He could be spending money that is partly yours. Since he's cheating this is the time to see a lawyer and get out of this marriage. My girlfriend's husband has just left her and he has his own pharmacy business. He was going to let her have the house (big deal because he was moving in with another woman) and nothing else. Again, DIVORCE HIM NOW. Or it will be too late for you.
arranged marriage is when your parents arrange your wife/husband. And sometimes they may even have a dowry this is when the brides father pays the husband to be the husband .
if she leaves her husband for you.