Some married men may feel their life is almost over and they would like to regain their youth and feel like they are single and enjoy the attraction they get from other women. Some men (a low percentage) will leave their wives for the mistress, but this man in particular most likely still loves his wife and feels guilty for cheating and doesn't want to lose her. He and his wife have invested years into their marriage and he is comfortable being with her. Now he risks losing her and, as it turns out most times when a woman chooses a married man and they both agree to an affair the mistress generally loses out.
He is most likely to be cheating if he is staying out late nights
Some marriages work out when the ex husband marries his mistress, but often the marriage becomes weak because the ex husband does not have the staying power; maturity or desire to make a marriage work. If the marriage has problems in the years to come (and there will be problems) he may well cheat on the mistress he married just like he did with you. Move on in your own life and let your ex husband find out what he is made of.
no
I believe they are both equal, because once a cheater, always a cheater
You should leave him because if you take him back (provided he is not staying with that other woman) it will just give him the go ahead to do it again.
remarry
No.
for 1 you might be ugly and 2 you might just be paranoid .............. and why are you staying with him ?!?!?!?!?! ANSWER: Don't let the person remarks insult you. Sometimes we all say things that can and will offend others. Now with your question, I do am sorry to what's going on with you. First of all, it is awkward knowing the way your husband is making love to you or kiss you. Why you ask, in my on opinion when married men had an affair they do discover the style of other woman's ways of having sex. Especially if your husband only knew how you make love to him. So when he taste the style of his mistress, that excite and turn him on. Because of this he will try it with you because he likes the way his mistress made him feel when they having sex. I could say try not to feel bad, but I cant, because the man that I married also experience his mistress ways of kissing that made him turn on. When we finally had sex, he uses the way he make love to his mistress to me, and unfortunately I did noticed because he never done this way with me since I had known him. I felt so small and disgusted because he used it with me what turn him on with his mistress. Why don't you talk to your husband and tell him what sicken you everytime the two of you have sex..
Ok. First of all, I would highly recommend staying AWAY from married men! It will lead you nowhere in all likelyhood. Ok. To try to answer your question: In the majority of these types of cases, a married man will say he wants you because he wants sex and that's it. He could also be trying to get his wife's attention indirectly, by cheating on her. To him, this is a message to his wife that something is missing in the marriage and he must look somewhere else to find it. Sorry if it doesn't.
Yes, I am. BO.
* If you are married then it's obvious you are unhappy in your marriage. One takes vows to be loyal and true to their partner, but the reality of it is most modern day couples don't take the time to work out their marriage problems and everyone has some problems throughout the relationship. By running from your responsibilities of trying to save your marriage by transferring your lack of love to a married man you are going down the road of cheating on your partner and there are just no excuses for cheating. Also, you are involving a married man and he will also be cheating on his wife. You may be single, but single or married having feelings for a married man can only end in disaster. Cheating is cheap and dishonest and if you are married or have a boyfriend then it's best to be honest and break up and stay away from married men. If in doubt put yourself in this man's wife's shoes! I don't think you would like it if your husband or boyfriend cheated on you. There is a high percentage of married men that cheat on their wives and end up staying with their wives and if they do have another woman on the side and he decides to get a divorce the statistics are low that he will marry the other woman, but take his freedom and run with it.
i cant say for sure, but ususally when a guy is cheating he has a guilty conscience and thinks that you are out doing the same thing. i would call cheaters:)