The relationship is over, you can't control her decisions. She's doing what is best for her--which is having no contact with you. Learn from this experience, you have no right abusing anyone, ever. There was no word of abuse from the person posting this question. This woman didn't have the guts to face him and tell him it was over. None of us like to be dismissed in such a manner. Unfortunately, the above poster is correct and it's time for you to move on.