Is it bad that your boyfriend would rather have kids before marriage at the age of 20 or 21?
No it's not right. If he's committed to you there is no reason
he can't marry you first. Fine for him to request this ... if he
grows tired of you or doesn't happen to like the responsibility of
having the children around guess who will get stuck with the kids
... YOU! Please don't agree to this. If someone loves you they are
willing to go all the way in committment and if they aren't then
kick 'em to the curb. Good luck Marcy