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No it's not right. If he's committed to you there is no reason he can't marry you first. Fine for him to request this ... if he grows tired of you or doesn't happen to like the responsibility of having the children around guess who will get stuck with the kids ... YOU! Please don't agree to this. If someone loves you they are willing to go all the way in committment and if they aren't then kick 'em to the curb. Good luck Marcy

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Ask him why. And set your own boundaries.

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