Parenting and Children
Teen Dating

Is it bad that your boyfriend would rather have kids before marriage at the age of 20 or 21?

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March 31, 2016 6:40PM

Ask him why. And set your own boundaries.

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May 30, 2005 6:00PM

No it's not right. If he's committed to you there is no reason

he can't marry you first. Fine for him to request this ... if he

grows tired of you or doesn't happen to like the responsibility of

having the children around guess who will get stuck with the kids

... YOU! Please don't agree to this. If someone loves you they are

willing to go all the way in committment and if they aren't then

kick 'em to the curb. Good luck Marcy

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