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  • Some men (and women) cheat because there is something lacking in their marriage and the communication skills in that marriage is poor. Some men will cheat because they find it exciting while other men may cheat because they feel their youth is slipping away quickly and they want to feel like other women are still attracted to him. Sometimes getting older is difficult for some individuals. No, it is not easy for a man who has been friends with a female for five years or more; then has an affair (love is about friendship and being lovers,) but sometimes friendship can be mistaken for true love. It's more of an emotional affair between the two when one or both parties are having a difficult time in their life. Considering your husbands ex mistress works at the same company as your husband this makes it even more of a challenge for your husband. If he was caught cheating by you then he either does not want to lose you or, he feels threatened and trapped. If he openly admitted to the affair to you and said it was over then he probably means it. Still, it is possible the affair could still pick up where it left off. It is important that the two of you sit down and communicate each of your feelings without arguing and also seeking marriage counseling to learn the tools to resolve problems in your marriage.
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well considering my ex is my boss and I've avoided her for as much as possible, and she is a w**** I say yes, get a new Job, instead of getting your life sucked away!

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Q: Is it easy for a married man get over his ex mistress when they had been friends for five years before the affair and he sees her everyday at work?
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Can a married guy get over his ex mistress when he sees her everyday at work knowing he cared about her because they were friends b4 the affair and said he was getting attached to her?

well depending on how much he loved her or who broke up with who? if you tell me i can probobly be some use to you.


How would a married man feel knowing he sees his ex mistress everyday at work he hasn't talk 2 her since he got caught cheating but they were good friends b4 the affair started?

they would probally feel so guilty that they give up their job.


If a married man hasn't talk to his ex mistress since they were caught cheating but yet he sees her at work everyday will he ever talk to her again since they were friends before the affair?

In my opinion and experience, yes he will most likely have ongoing contact with her, especially if they work together.


Is it possible for a married man not to get feelings towards his mistress when they were friends b4 affair and the affair lasted 7 mths?

It could but I doubt it. He will not last this long with his affair if he don't have feelings for her, after all they were friends before, and being friends shared a lot of things when it comes to their own private life. This married man might not admit how he feels for her but believe me he have feelings for her. If all he desires is sex, it will not last 7 months.


Could a married man move pass his affair and make his marriage work if he sees his ex mistress at work everyday but doesn't talk to her but looks at her?

No, the marriage will never work because his mind & heart will always be with the other woman. And will you ever be certain that the mistress is actually an ex-mistress? Doubt it.


Why would a married woman call a single man everyday at or after work to speak with him?

Unless they are good friends, I think she is trying to start affair.


Is the affair over after mistress tells spouse?

ANSWER: Are you joking, did you think because you had told his wife what he was doing, that will be the end of it. Mistress hardly go and see the wife, of the man she was having the affair, her intent is if the wife learn about her husband, it will automatically going to kick him out of their house. And this is mistress dream. When a woman becomes the mistress it will be for her benefit as well as the married man, why? the only way a mistress can let go her married lover is when she have a soul.


What is a mistress thinking?

ANSWER: When you ask the question" what the mistress thinking" are you talking about her relationship with a married man? Or how she feels helping the married man betrayed his wife. If this are your question, then let me say what I think, we will never know what the other woman is thinking while she having an affair with this man. Most mistresses do not have lots of close friends while having affair with a man who is married, because her relationship needs to be hidden from public eyes and friends. And there are some mistress who think they can tell this married man to leave the wife, because she is much better than the wife. After all it is him who tell story or maybe some lies so this woman will believe how bad his life is with his wife..


Ending an affair?

how does a husband who claims he fell in love with his mistress end this affair i thought we've been happily married for twenty seven years


What is the difference between concubine and mistress?

A concubine is a woman who lives with a man, but is lower in status than his wife or wives. A mistress is a woman having an affair with a married man.


When a married man wifes finds out about an affair why would the married man continue to see his mistress?

Maybe because he stopped seeing that other lady that he was having an affair with because he liked his wife better.


If an ex mistress wants to talk to her married man again because they were good friends b4 the affair should she send him an email or talk to him in person if he was the one who stopped talking to her?

the mistress should not say anything to the married man at all. he made the decision to end communication with her for a reason. the reason the mistress should leave him alone is because he's married and the mistress is breaking up his family whether or not she knows it. so she should just let him go and find someone new and single to be with