You should see someone. You need to know that nothing was your fault and that you did nothing wrong. It will help you out alot to talk with someone proffesional. That way they can help you get back on your feet and know that you did nothing wrong. Good luck and God Bless:) it is normal to feel that way but if you were being abused he or she was trying to control you and make you feel bad about yourself. you should just think positive thought and keep remembering that you are beautiful no matter if someone treats you bad or not.
He grew up in an abusive family situation -APEX
This is a generalisation, and a highly incorrect one at that. Women can be, are just as abusive and insecure as men. Many men are not abusive and are quite secure with themselves - the opposite is in fact a minority.
It could. But not every Bipolar person is abusive. It should however, never be an excuse for abuse. A person who is abusive Bipolar or not, is wrong in what they are doing. Seek help if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship/situation.
It is important to exit an abusive relationship carefully. Slavery is abusive.
AnswerSome women can, others can not. This is dependent on your situation, and the relationship that you have with your children. Often, if they are close to your abusive partner; taking them will not be an option. That would only become an option after a court case. Taking your children with you is often a favorable decision, especially if they are young. However, if taking them increases your chances of being hurt - do not do it. The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when the victim leaves, so do not place yourself in additional danger. You must assess the situation.
No, but some may target insecure women.
Abusive relationship is not good. It affects nearly all aspects of life.
The rate of return is high, considering how few women in the situation manage to leave.
I'm not sure. Maybe he is afraid to be lonely.
get help ASAP
You will definitely need therapy, some people think rebound is a cure but it's not you have to take time for your self, start living again, meet new people. Abusive relationships sometimes attract some people. So if someone starts becoming suspect leave don't try to doing them, don't rationalize the situation get out of there. Once you have been abused its like you have it written on your forehead or something, but abusers can tell and if your major careful you can end right back up in another abusive relationship.
I can speak from experience but no two relationships are the same. I agree this could spark problems for the abuser to handle but if it truly is a violent relationship then i would not advise aggravating the situation unless my bags were packed and the engine running. Most abusive relationships are built on intimidation and control by standing up for yourself by reading and flaunting articles about abuse could cause a bad situation to become worse or or a week relationship to fall apart.