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Is it wrong to love someone who cheated on you once after being with you four years and he wants to be with you after two years of being apart?
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∙ 17y ago
no Maybe or maybe not. We don't know the circumstances of the cheating, your ages, if this was the only time, or a string of affairs, is he repentent, are you ready to dump him for ever if it happens again? How can we answer a question with so little information? No. You can spend your precious time loving anyone you want. If you love him give it a shot! It's been two years and people MAKE MISTAKES and he may have matured by now and wants to prove to you he has matured. After two dates you'll know if he's changed for the better and if he has you can start a strong relationship and if not then you can walk away. As humans we need to gauge such things as someone cheating once because people do make mistakes. I have often posted there is zero tolerance for cheating and it's a chicken way out ... in other words people who want to date someone else have the option of being mature enough to tell their current girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife. Youth is about learning, so, he made a mistake and perhaps he's grown up. If you see everything in black and white then you could lose out on some great events in your life. Meet with him and see what happens. What do you have to lose!
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∙ 17y ago
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∙ 15y agoI don't think it's ever wrong to love someone regardless of what they do to you. What's wrong is what they did. If you love this person and they are willing to start over and regain your trust that's all that matter. Yes, many people have the same problem. But if you are willing to give them a second chance then by all means go for it, just make sure that he/she promises to be faithful to you and keeps it. Remember if they cheat you will be hurt again, but time heals all wounds its a cliche for a reason meaning cliches have some truth to them. Sorry about babbling on...just wanted to answer as thoroughly as possible. ^__^
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∙ 14y agoWell the way i see it it depends. If its just sex then you should forgive and love them but if they start a relationship with someone else then i would move on
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What to do if your boyfriend of 5 years cheated on you with his ex wife And she had been your friend for the past year He left you for her after being divorced for 10years and now he wants you back?
DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK. It was his fault he cheated on you and if he had to be married with her for 10 years and all of a sudden wanted you back, tough nuts. They can live for the rest of their lives together. You can find someone else.
You cheated on your boyfriend and now he wants you back?
Date him again! He obviously likes you a lot, because if someone cheats on you then you seriously shouldn't date them. And if he wants to take that big of a risk again and be with you, he's worth it.
Your husband cheated and had 2 children with his lover Now he wants you back?
dont do it. my ex wife cheated on me and now has more children and wants me back as well. not a hope in hell.
Who should you go with ex boyfriend who you've been with for 3 years but who cheated on you or a man who is married but wants to leave his wife for you?
Neither! Why would you want someone like that! If the man is married dont you wonder if he will do the same to you! why go with someone who cheated on you if he's bound to do it again! Once a cheater always a cheater!
Your boyfriend cheated on you now he wants to get marry you?
say no way
Im in love with a girls whoes in a relationship she cheated on her bf with me but she wants to stay with him what should i do?
Get over the girl, because if she cheated on him - who is to say she won't cheat on you?
What is the music video where a teenage girl is made fun of for having a glowing red heart?
This one? "She wants revenge - Tear you apart".Greetings from Argentina!PS: i was looking it too :PShe Wants Revenge - Tear You Apart She Wants Revenge - Tear You Apart She Wants Revenge - Tear You Apart
If your friend had attractions to guys but wants to be with you is he in love with you and not guys?
Being attracted to guys means nothing relative to whether he loves you. If he loves you and wants to be with you, then it is no different to you being attracted to someone else but being with him.
Am going through a lot of misunderstandings with your boyfriend to the extend of developing emotional breakdown and do not want to break with him he cheated you so many times what can you do?
If someone cheated on you many times, he doesn't care about you. All he probably wants is sex. There is no reason for you to get worked up over someone who doesn't truly care about you in the first place. Drop him, give your heart time to breathe and move on to someone who will treat you like a queen!
Why would a man want you to think he cheated on you when he didn't?
Cause he's a jerk and wants you to be ticked off!! Wants to make you jealous.
If you are being used my someone who wants your attention all the time until they meet someone new?
Well stop talking to them.
What to do when your ex wants you back but cheated on you last time?
I believe you should say no am i right?
