No. The best thing is not to jump into relationships easily unless you are sure about the person. Dont cheat your partner and believe in one love.
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Important things aren't always easy or fast. If he is truly back with you, then get counseling to help you both get on the road to rebuilding your relationship. The right therapist can help you understand the progression of feelings and offer advice to work through it. One thing I've read in several places is that your husband is going to have to seriously understand and listen to your venting.
u can over come anything if u put your mind to it :)
it doesnt happen...
drinking and drugs
When they heal!
Between physical, spiritual and emotional pain, the one I think is the most painful is emotional. The reason why is because emotional scars never heal. Physical scars can heal and you may not always be aware of the spiritual side of things, so in essence you may not feel anything.
try to seek advise from a competent person
rarely. seek short term counseling ASAP
Your husband has broken that bond of trust you had for him by having an affair and it will take time for you to gain his trust back. Women are more difficult to forgive sexually when their husband's have an affair and feel they may be competing with the other woman. Men on the other hand seem to have no difficulty if their wife cheated and he took her back to continue on with an intimate relationship. Give it time and good communication skills between the two of you are a must and both of you should be honest in relating to each other how each of you feels. Time does heal. You may also think of going to marriage counseling to learn some good tools to strengthen your marriage.
It is the duty of a good wife, to give her husband the positive energy. It is very important to have a graceful communication and understanding between husband and wife.
yes you dont date people who cheated on you B: In my opinion not all wives who got hurt from their husbands affair lost the love they have for their husband. It all depend on what kind of problem they are having to why the husband end up finding another woman. But maybe there are some wives out there who got hurt so bad that loving their husband back will be impossible, and that includes yours truly. To some loving our husband back after the affair will take a miracles and sometimes divorce is the only way out. To be hurt by someone we love will take time to heal especially if our spouse fell in love with his mistress. Who ever you are I do hope that your problem can be solve. Good luck!
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You don't, especially your trust. no one can get over the affect of your husband or your wife infidelity. It will take time to heal and after you accept the hurt, sometimes a "flashback" will occur no matter if you want it or not. Give your self time and space, and if it will help every time you think that the pain of the affair is coming back, write your thought, write how you feel, write the things that really hurt you from the affair. If you can do this, that will be one of the sign that your healing yourself.